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What would happen to you/your family if there were NO benefits/welfare system?

317 replies

Mamajoycewig · 01/08/2024 21:45

As there's been a lot of talk around benefits in the news and a lot of strong opinions on it I was interested to know what would happen to most people if there were no welfare system in place?

Would your family suffer? Would you be on the streets?

Would you have still had kids knowing if you couldn't work there'd be no government backup?

Would you have made different life choices?

Personally, if all benefits were to be removed tomorrow then we'd be the same financially other than losing child benefit which we use for nappies/wipes etc.

My mum and brother would be screwed as he's disabled. Although if I'm honest I don't think she'd have had as many kids as she did without any top ups (4 kids). She's always worked but needed top ups.

OP posts:
Kendodd · 01/08/2024 22:39

Mamajoycewig · 01/08/2024 22:28

When I think about how many people need benefits just to keep a roof over their heads I realise just how vital our welfare really is and should be protected.

Top up benefits support so many families due to low wages.

I was speaking to my hairdresser who's from a country with no welfare system. I asked her what would happen to a single mum who couldn't work for whatever reason. She said if family didn't take them in then they'd just literally live on the streets.
It's not uncommon for people to work 3 jobs. She said she'd be a hairdresser during the day and then work in a supermarket in the evenings 6 days a week. Then on Sundays she'd do a cleansing job in the morning. So she only got half a day a week with her daughter. She said it wasn't unusual.

I asked what happened to disabled people and she said family would look after them. But if your family couldn't they'd just literally be on the streets and beg or die.

I don't think stopping benefits would stop people having kids either even with free contraception. So child poverty would be through the roof.

I actually disagree with you about 'top up' benefits OP. I think it's an absolute scandal that people working full time need money from the tax payer so that they can feed their children and keep a roof over their head. Meanwhile their employers are hoarding profits for themselves. It's not the benefits system that needs reform, its the distribution of the company profits so that workers also get a fair share.

Fifferfefferfeff · 01/08/2024 22:39

Slav80 · 01/08/2024 22:31

Or perhaps try to work full time? Everyone can spend their money all they want but not taxpayers money, your money really.

Perhaps she wouldn't be able to work full time. Not everyone can. She must be working at least 30 hours a week though, to be getting single parent universal credit, surely? Or has it gone up to 35 now?

nextdoornightmares · 01/08/2024 22:39

Slav80 · 01/08/2024 22:31

Or perhaps try to work full time? Everyone can spend their money all they want but not taxpayers money, your money really.

Almost half of our total monthly income of £4k is made up of benefits.

Our total outgoings come to around £3k.

And we will spend the remainder however we please. Even on Starbucks! 😲

Oh and we have a lovely 4 bed detached new build house, 2 cars and 3 kids with another one on the way.

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Rainbowsponge · 01/08/2024 22:39

Kendodd · 01/08/2024 22:39

I actually disagree with you about 'top up' benefits OP. I think it's an absolute scandal that people working full time need money from the tax payer so that they can feed their children and keep a roof over their head. Meanwhile their employers are hoarding profits for themselves. It's not the benefits system that needs reform, its the distribution of the company profits so that workers also get a fair share.

The profits are taxed. It makes no difference which is why labour haven’t leapt in to change the NMW

TeaGinandFags · 01/08/2024 22:40

I'd be dead.

I wouldn't be able to afford the free healthcare that saved my life.

Fifferfefferfeff · 01/08/2024 22:40

Surely the problem is wages paying so little and rents being so high that around 50% of families have to have benefits top-ups?

J316 · 01/08/2024 22:41

Slav80 · 01/08/2024 22:22

It would impact the check out lady who works part time in Aldi, she works part time, so that she can get the top ups. I see her almost every weekend in Starbucks when I do my shopping in the adjacent supermarket. She has 3 kids, Starbucks coffee is one of the most expensive coffees you can get, I hesitate to go there and I work full time and earn over average, I have never used benefits.
Until we close the loopholes in the system, there will always be people gaming the system.

You're actually better off working full time on UC so you're talking mince. It's also none of your business what she spends it on. Who do you think you are saying she shouldn't be having a costa 🙄

Rainbowsponge · 01/08/2024 22:42

J316 · 01/08/2024 22:41

You're actually better off working full time on UC so you're talking mince. It's also none of your business what she spends it on. Who do you think you are saying she shouldn't be having a costa 🙄

Not in terms of work life balance you’re not. And it was Starbucks not Costa 🤪

GTTIA1107 · 01/08/2024 22:42

Wouldn't impact me. Financially independent and mortgage paid off

Rainbowsponge · 01/08/2024 22:42

Fifferfefferfeff · 01/08/2024 22:40

Surely the problem is wages paying so little and rents being so high that around 50% of families have to have benefits top-ups?

Most people on UC don’t work

Slav80 · 01/08/2024 22:44

BitOutOfPractice · 01/08/2024 22:36

I’m intrigued @Slav80 how you know so much of the private details of a check out lady’s life. I call bullshit. Even if you do I think that’s one of the most mean-spirited posts I’ve read in a long time.

it wouldn’t affect my personal finances. It would massively impact my life because of the effect it would have on wider society.

Believe what you will, it’s a small place, people talk. I would gladly help people in real need, but not people who happily abuse the system, no wonder there’s no money left in the coffins. As someone said above, effective benefits system is what’s needed.

Kendodd · 01/08/2024 22:44

Fifferfefferfeff · 01/08/2024 22:40

Surely the problem is wages paying so little and rents being so high that around 50% of families have to have benefits top-ups?

Yes, I agree, housing is a massive issue. We need and absolutly huge council house building programme. And I say this as a private LL.

Slav80 · 01/08/2024 22:46

J316 · 01/08/2024 22:41

You're actually better off working full time on UC so you're talking mince. It's also none of your business what she spends it on. Who do you think you are saying she shouldn't be having a costa 🙄

She could get drunk on coffee for all I care with her own money but not taxpayers money.

Werweisswohin · 01/08/2024 22:46

We'd all be impacted if we stopped supporting the most vulnerable in society. 😔

Namechangejust · 01/08/2024 22:46

Personally absolutely no impact on me but my daughter who is a SW for child protection team really relies on Child Benefit and wrap around care for her child.
She can’t do her job without the extra help…she is spending crazy hours helping others !

Werweisswohin · 01/08/2024 22:47

Slav80 · 01/08/2024 22:44

Believe what you will, it’s a small place, people talk. I would gladly help people in real need, but not people who happily abuse the system, no wonder there’s no money left in the coffins. As someone said above, effective benefits system is what’s needed.

I reallyhopes that's a typo....coffins? You mean coffers, right?

Rainbowsponge · 01/08/2024 22:48

Werweisswohin · 01/08/2024 22:46

We'd all be impacted if we stopped supporting the most vulnerable in society. 😔

Many are vulnerable but drug users who are in & out of court/A&E and burgle houses are not ‘vulnerable’. And there are many of them

Werweisswohin · 01/08/2024 22:48

Rainbowsponge · 01/08/2024 22:42

Most people on UC don’t work

Lots of folk on UC work.

Rainbowsponge · 01/08/2024 22:48

Werweisswohin · 01/08/2024 22:48

Lots of folk on UC work.

Yes but not most.

Slav80 · 01/08/2024 22:48

Werweisswohin · 01/08/2024 22:47

I reallyhopes that's a typo....coffins? You mean coffers, right?

Yes, sorry, coffers🤣

MrsSkylerWhite · 01/08/2024 22:50

Wouldn’t affect us, never been on benefits. More than happy to pay taxes though so that those who need them can be in receipt.

CaraVann · 01/08/2024 22:50

I would lose my job as I am a PA for a disabled person.

Zebedee999 · 01/08/2024 22:51

MargotEmin · 01/08/2024 21:56

My profoundly disabled sibling would probably die

Couldn't family look after him/her?

In the event of no benefits I think multi generational households would come back as they were years ago. i.e grandparents looking after kids whilst parents worked. Daughters getting pregnant at 16 staying at home instead of getting council flats etc.

In Asian cultures multi generational living is quite common, the welfare state allowed everyone to get their own place.

J316 · 01/08/2024 22:51

Rainbowsponge · 01/08/2024 22:29

She doesn’t begrudge her the coffee she begrudges her the needless top ups.

If she was working full time she would still need top ups!

Edenmum2 · 01/08/2024 22:52

Not so much now but at one point I was wheelchair bound after a no fault car accident and I had no way of supporting myself. It wasn't easy to get support either (apparently 2 severely broken legs, neck and pelvis isn't a clear cut case for PIP - but eventually did get help)

I get that's it's hard to understand as someone who doesn't need it but the process is horrible, demeaning and terrifying when you're relying on an under-qualified agency employee to decide whether you are bashed up enough to warrant a measly few hundred pounds a month. Especially when you're dealing with the trauma of nearly dying in a car crash.

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