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Why do people research their genealogy/family tree?

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excelen · 29/07/2024 22:19

My brother is obsessed with researching our ancestry. I couldn’t care less, they’re almost always dead… we come from a long line of lower middle class farmers. How exciting.

Why do people research it?

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SusieTrevelyan · 31/07/2024 21:42

I come from a strong British yeoman background and am so proud of my ancestors and what they did. When I look at the next generation coming up, there really is no comparison with those who came before and gave them life. Those who were may be six feet under, but I would rather research their lives than listen to the drivel of the younger generation.

NonEternal · 31/07/2024 21:50

beryldaperil · 31/07/2024 21:20

"It tells you how Celtic or Roman or Thuringian or whatever you are. " yes, a German family member (who has a black wife) said that most of those websites essentially aid white Europeans confirm their whiteness and aryan status. They are awash on the continent with nationalists trying to confirm their Northern European heritage. I like that chap, he calls a spade a spade

That’s repellent. It’s supposed to be for entertainment and family history.

beryldaperil · 01/08/2024 13:16

I agree wholeheartedly @NonEternal , but you have to imagine that evil will always attempt to steal joy and curiosity at every level. That said, I can see what he means and was alluding to, if you think of that meeting that took place in Germany last winter of far right leaders explaining at depth how to remove non Germans from the country (repatriate), and how they may have included this topic into their talks.

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RedToothBrush · 02/08/2024 08:55

beryldaperil · 31/07/2024 21:20

"It tells you how Celtic or Roman or Thuringian or whatever you are. " yes, a German family member (who has a black wife) said that most of those websites essentially aid white Europeans confirm their whiteness and aryan status. They are awash on the continent with nationalists trying to confirm their Northern European heritage. I like that chap, he calls a spade a spade

My experience has been that there are different reasons to do them and that's driving uptake.

There is much more of a social trend for them in the US and Canada than the UK. We are much more concerned about privacy and how the information might be used in the future than American and Canadians.

If you go look on forums, one of the things people from the US and Canada are doing when they take tests is to find out if the family myth about being indigenous North American is true or not. It seems to be one of these urban myths that everyone has this story passed down in the family and it's quite commonly something that doesn't turn out to be true. And then there's a certain disappointment from not finding that. There's also a lot of mixed race people trying to find their roots. If anything being very white western European can actually be viewed as rather boring. Unless you actively looking to 99% Irish so you can go back to Ireland which is also a thing.

In the UK people who do tests still seem to fall into two camps rather than the 'just for fun' of the USA and Canada. They are either people who have done extensive family history for many years through the paperwork and want to verify their work OR they fall into the category of having a know family mystery that they are trying to solve - a rumour of someone, knowing someone is missing and trying to find them, or trying to establish parentage. The ethnicity stuff is actually a lot less in the mindset of Brits.

It's an interesting contrast between the two. It means if you are British and have ancestors who had siblings who followed migration pattern, then you are likely to get a lot more hits from across the pond than within the UK.

This isn't necessarily a bad thing. I've been able to solve mysteries about the origins of both DHs family and my Dad's family through the DNA which the loss of Irish records has otherwise prevented. It just filled in a gap.

In DHs case we didn't know where this man had come from - we suspected southern Europe but this turned out not to be the case. In my dad's case we knew it was an Irish connection we just didn't know whereabouts in Ireland. So it didn't prove an ethnicity we didn't know.

Overall it's proved that areas of research which were weak correct. Although there is one part of my mum's family I think is now questionable. This isn't really a huge shock. It's a woman who had kids from two previous marriages from much older men and my ancestors was supposedly the daughter of the third husband. Both the mother and father in question clearly had very colourful lives from the other information we had about them so it perhaps would have suited the man to take on a woman who was already pregnant for his own respectability and obviously it would have provided her with more financial security. Everything suggests it was otherwise a successful marriage.

I think the idea that it's just about proving how white you are doesn't reflect what I've seen. Go have a good look at the Reddit for ancestry. It's full of people being excited to find non white European ancestry. And slight disappointment at finding out the opposite! Of course there will be some that will try and do a test to prove the opposite - but that's a bit of a risk because unless you have done years of extensive work before you probably don't have a clue and might easily be surprised to find some Jewish in there for example. And there's then nothing you can do to then change that. Except lie.

The number of people who find they have expected matches is really high too. There are so many mysteries that are much more compelling than the ethnicity. Between DH and my parents, I've found four areas of the family within second cousin range of someone who 'shouldn't be there'. In DHs case it explains a lot of my MILs upbringing. My Dad has illegitimate cousins from one of his uncles (we don't know which one) and DH has second cousins who we have isolated to a second of the family. That last one was quite sad as it was a lady who had put her DNA up trying to find out who her father was. She died fairly recently but I've talked briefly to her daughter. I was able to tell the daughter she was descended from a one of several brothers but I could tell which from the result I could see. Seeing as it was her mother's dying wish to know, I think it has helped close a book. It's just a shame her mum didn't live quite long enough.

Lilysgoneshopping · 02/08/2024 09:02

MagneticSquirrel · 29/07/2024 22:33

No idea! I know someone that does this, even goes to visit the towns were great great great relatives lived and looks them up in public records, cemeteries etc. Is always going on about the family tree and how name x came from person y and so and so had n kids and lived in so-and-so.

I don’t get it, nothing they learn about our dead ancestors is going to make and difference or improve our lives now!

I can understand wanting to find living siblings or relatives. It’s the going backwards several generations I don’t understand.

You CAN find living relatives through ancestry. Someone who has DNA matched with you is related in some way. You have the option of contacting this person. I have communicated with distant cousins in Canada who are the grandchildren of my great grandfather's sisters who emigrated to Canada after WW1(I never previously knew these cousins existed)

Lilysgoneshopping · 02/08/2024 09:03

I have also found a first cousin who I haven't seen for over 50 years!!

Seaitoverthere · 02/08/2024 09:27

I find it really interesting and it has been a lifesaver for me whilst having mobility issues as kept me occupied. I started helping one of my DNA matches who is adopted and for 3 years we have been working on who his biological father is and building his maternal line from his his mother’s name on his birth certificate with help from others along the way.

He does’t have any high DNA matches but from a couple of names in the trees of our shared matches we now have 2 large trees with over 50 of his matches connected.

We now have a Canadian genetic genealogist on board for a couple of months. She specialises in finding people from low matches and is teaching is as we go along which I am really enjoying and as we hoped she is able to cut through all the info we have and we are hoping we are finally close.

She’s put me on looking at his maternal line as feels that his paper tree isn’t correct and there is probably an adoption or affair along the line and says that is very often the case at some point in so many of the trees she works on. I don’t think my Mum’s Grandfather is who he was supposed to be so we are going to look at that. My uncle is a half uncle as my cousin has tested though I don’t think he understands his results and I have a different 2 x G Grandfather to the paper tree on my Dad’s side and meet up with my 3rd cousin and his wife every so often who was originally from some distance away but now 20 mins down the road.

Also it turns out the the place over the road where used to have lessons for something when I was little was in the family years ago and until about 20 years before we moved there had our family name.

beryldaperil · 02/08/2024 18:17

@RedToothBrush I was responding to a pp concerning the arrests in Germany in winter 2023, and the secret minutes which were taken. A German family member stated to us that some of those DNA websites were being quoted as a way to prove Germanic heritage. If I understand correctly, those results were to prove that there was only Northern European heritage in members. He was surprised that Ancestry was advertising on TV when he came to stay. Since his sharing I can somewhat see where it could be exploited and abused. Some members of that secret far right meeting are undergoing police investigation, quite rightly so, as they meant harm to a significant proportion of the German population.

cryinglaughing · 02/08/2024 18:22

My dm was adopted.
She went through life thinking she was an only child given up by a young Mum.
She is actually one of 12 and her birth Mum was 32. She has no desire to meet her relatives, what she wanted to know was where she geographically came from.

FluffyLemonClouds · 06/08/2024 21:40

cryinglaughing · 02/08/2024 18:22

My dm was adopted.
She went through life thinking she was an only child given up by a young Mum.
She is actually one of 12 and her birth Mum was 32. She has no desire to meet her relatives, what she wanted to know was where she geographically came from.

Why doesn't she want to meet her siblings ?

cryinglaughing · 06/08/2024 21:51

@FluffyLemonClouds she just has no interest in them or their lives, simple as that really.

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blacksax · 26/09/2025 14:07

Never mind why people research their family history, why do some people resurrect old threads in order to post spam?

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