Does it really not bother you?🤔

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Hey there…hope you’re all well 😊 just curious, question directed to the men on MN. Bit of background info…I’m a married mum of two and recently had a baby. I’ve always been a “bigger” girl but I had been considerably slimmer and very trim before having kids. I felt comfortable wearing lots of different clothes (particularly body con dresses) and was generally comfortable in my own skin! However after having kids I gained a significant amount of weight, to the point where NONE of my pre-pregnancy clothes fit me and I basically had to get an entire new wardrobe…I struggled to get the weight off, losing bits here and there but hadn’t really managed to get to how I was before. I’m not expecting to be the woman I was before having kids because that’s just not physiologically possible but I yearn to get some sort of similar figure back…
ANYWAY question to the dads, husbands…men in general that have partners that have had kid(s), do you notice the change in their bodies (if any) and do you mind? Does it affect your attraction in any way? If there’s a lot of weight gain, do you want them to lose it or are you embracing the curves? Just want to know what’s in your heads 😂 appreciate honest comments please !

Men would fuck a pie if they were desperate
No offense.
They usually don't care as long as you're healthy and any good man would know to not say anything, anyway, as their partner has grown them a human
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I don’t know if this is going to do you any good as at the end of the day it’s about how you feel about yourself.

To answer your actual question my partner was very slim and petite when we met. We were together a long time before children arrived with little change in her body, I'd put on a bit of weight which she never mentioned . Post children her body changed, she has a fuller figure now and she has bought a new wardrobe.

Genuinely have always fancied the pants off her. (I know that sometimes she doesn’t believe me) We’re embracing the change in both our bodies and trying to stay fit and healthy for our children and ourselves which isn’t always easy. Guess were rocking the Mum and Dad bods.

It’s a cliche but confidence is sexy. Test it, sext your hubby a good offer during the day and see how quick gets home 😁 he certainly won’t be thinking what dress size you are!!

Take care x