In a relationship. 27 for 2 very young kids with him. Having kids has made me see him in a completely different light tbh
he is a lazy man baby who doesn’t pull half his weight. Thinks because he earns more so pays more he can do fucking nothing - doesn’t do housework and doesn’t do actual parenting. I do bath, bedtime. Nursery drop off and pick up. I have them alone constantly he’s never had them alone.
Jm starting to dislike him. I see other men with their kids and think how sad it is that my kids don’t have a hands on dad. But his loss because I get so many special moments with them and I’m so lucky to have the pair of them they’re my rock.
I’m staying with him mainly as it’s security. I’d struggle being. Single mum financially and yeah that sounds superficial but I mean struggle to pay bills or take the kids on at sort of day out etc. the house is in my name too so don’t want a big thing over who keeps it do we sell etc
its awful I’m even thinking that is t it? He is just so selfish and lazy and it makes me sad. I think back to when it was pregnant with my first baby and I was so excited for us and our new chapter. And I fast forward to now