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So sad about Strictly.

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CurlewKate · 16/07/2024 10:00

It's been part of our family life since it started. I really wanted to think it was as wholesome and joyous and life affirming as it looked, even though I knew it probably wasn't.

And there are celebrities that I feel differently about now because they didn't blow the whistle.😢

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Swisscave · 16/07/2024 19:29

Agree, Alexander Armstrong would be brilliant. Plus it would be great if we got a wee song from him too

TakeOnFlea · 16/07/2024 19:39

"Do they literally not hang out anywhere? Chat informally as a bigger group? I assumed there would be some hanging around together given how slow some parts must be.
More fool me."

They don't even train in the same town but near the celebs home. They go home at night!

Hughs · 16/07/2024 19:49

*Strictly is a huge public platform. Do you not think producers/casting directors on other shows watch it for potential candidates/pay attention if talent agents talk to them about their Strictly dancer clients? (how many Strictly people also turn up on other reality shows, not to mention things like Anton and Giovanni's Italian travel show?).
Plus many of them convert Strictly fame into live shows and tours.

If a dancer can stay on it for more than one season and start to build a profile, it's potentially a powerful springboard to other work and more exposure.

Combine that desire for work/money with a pro dancer's will to win and competitive nature, plus the 'old-fashioned' training methods many of them probably experienced themselves, and you can see how assaults might happen.*

@MarkWithaC

None of this explains the original point I replied to, which was that the Strictly producers are more culpable for the abuse than the pros. You said you agreed because producers wield a lot of power and dancers are desperate to stay on.

This doesn't make any sense - it doesn't really matter to producers whether Graziano and Zara are good or bad. There is no pressure there. Each week someone gets voted off and while I'm sure production are sometimes disappointed that their faves / ones with good stories get voted out, it really doesn't matter to them who it is. It matters to Graziano, but I can't see how there is a link there to his behaviour being more the producers' fault than his.

Even if Strictly producers were applying unbearable pressure on the pros to make their celebrities dance better, this is not the same as encouraging abuse. Most of the pros manage to teach their partners just fine without hitting them.

The producers you are talking about above are not the same people. Strictly producers do not have any say (and very little interest) in whether Anton or whoever gets picked up for a different series. They also have very little power on a show like that, they are there to do an awful lot of donkey work. The real power lies with production execs (who control the budget), exec producers (who have some say in the editorial direction of the series) and mostly, commissioning.

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eggplant16 · 16/07/2024 20:30

I suppose Brucie ( an utter embarassment in later years) and Len maintained some sort of old school/family entertainment vibe.
Its sad and horrible now.

LuckySantangelo35 · 16/07/2024 20:50

FailBetter · 16/07/2024 18:34

The old rumours that some contestants only agreed to do the show if they had Anton starts to make sense
His attitude was to adapt to his slebs; so if Jerry wanted to have high Brew or Ann didn't want to learn the steps, rather than be flustered he just took it/covered it with "comedy." Made him a target of criticism but was a safe bet unless you were Laila Rouass. Poor lass was made to feel more worried about the possible public backlash against them (meaning they were voted out) rather than the abuse she took.

@FailBetter

what happened with Laila Rouass?

MeinKraft · 16/07/2024 20:58

'The GBBO is a good example of how to do competition. No one has spat at anyone over a badly turned out sponge.

Strictly obviously takes itself far too seriously.'

I mean you have to remember that the pros are world champion level dancers so it's fine for them to take dancing seriously. The problem is that being a good dancer doesn't necessarily make you a good teacher, there should be some kind of teacher training for new pros before they are let near a celebrity.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 16/07/2024 21:02

what happened with Laila Rouass?

He called her a racial slur starting with P.

cupcaske123 · 16/07/2024 21:05

MeinKraft · 16/07/2024 20:58

'The GBBO is a good example of how to do competition. No one has spat at anyone over a badly turned out sponge.

Strictly obviously takes itself far too seriously.'

I mean you have to remember that the pros are world champion level dancers so it's fine for them to take dancing seriously. The problem is that being a good dancer doesn't necessarily make you a good teacher, there should be some kind of teacher training for new pros before they are let near a celebrity.

Day one: Listen up everyone, no spitting on the slebs.

Swisscave · 16/07/2024 21:08

Lucy porter is also a great shout, I’d imagine she would be really lovely and warm with the contestants

Also Sian Gibson who was in Car share. Funny, warm and talented.

I do like Claudia but the frenetic energy is just too much with everything else that goes on with the show.
Needs someone who is warm, calm and naturally funny.

Also seen as I’m writing a wish list….Peter Kay would be epic. I know he would never ever do it but him and Sian would be fab

Swisscave · 16/07/2024 21:25

Third male dancer involved :

www.thesun.co.uk/tv/29273517/strictly-probes-third-dancer-crisis-lawyers/

LuckySantangelo35 · 16/07/2024 21:30

ClownsFear · 16/07/2024 21:10

@LuckySantangelo35 what happened with Laila Rouass?

https://www.theguardian.com/media/2009/oct/05/strictly-anton-paki-complaints

@ClownsFear thank you for linking. That is shocking.

Felching · 16/07/2024 22:03

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JenniferBooth · 16/07/2024 22:06

@ClownsFear Fucking hell!!

Jagsy · 16/07/2024 22:40

ClownsFear · 16/07/2024 21:10

@LuckySantangelo35 what happened with Laila Rouass?

https://www.theguardian.com/media/2009/oct/05/strictly-anton-paki-complaints

I am soo shocked! How did I never hear about this? Having been at the receiving end of this slur many times whilst I was in high school, I can’t believe Anton said that! Thanks @ClownsFear for linking

Felching · 16/07/2024 22:50

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WannabeHealthier · 16/07/2024 22:50

I don’t think anyone has mentioned the financial incentives for the pro dancers yet- they are paid a low fee for being paired up with a celebrity (£30k apparently) and given sizeable bonuses for getting to Blackpool/ semi/ final/ winning the competition. It’s always struck me as super tight of the BBC only to pay £30k given it’s 6 months of their life including the prep. It’s also very hard work for them as they need to do the choreography as well.

Diane Buswell’s dad was going through chemotherapy in Australia and she wasn’t able to visit him until Christmas. It’s really not enough to compensate for their work and commitment… so no wonder some are desperate to get as far as they can. What’s their shelf life too? Surely it’s not secure season to season? Dianne has a very rich boyfriend who pays for their luxury lifestyle (along with the social media ads both of them exploit) there’s no way her strictly fees are funding that lifestyle!

I think they need to look at this because it’s incentivising some pros to drive their celebs to the absolute extreme.

Anton was building his brand as jolly, kind man … it took a long time to get the judge gig but that’s obviously what he was aiming at for years. He played the long game, but others don’t enjoy the job security he did. Yes otherd have turned to social media, presenting etc… but some really do rely on the fees to pay the bills.

I think this is just another example of creative people/ dance talent being underpaid… meanwhile Tess Daly is paid handsomely for a fairly generic presenting gig. That’s the imbalance they need to address.

Wheresthebeach · 16/07/2024 22:50

Wonder what the final tally will be and how many of the old guard will be implicated

cupcaske123 · 16/07/2024 22:56

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Of course the P word was taboo then. It's always been extremely racist.

OtterMouse · 16/07/2024 23:12

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cupcaske123 · 16/07/2024 23:14

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It's always been racist; started in the 60s to refer to Asian immigrants. We had 'political correctness' in the 90s; you couldn't say boo to a goose.

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