So I appear to have mortally offended/disgusted a colleague. No idea why. Not intentionally anyway!
She took a dislike to me the first time we met (I hadn’t even spoken to her and she started giving me the cat shit face) and has made her displeasure felt since then (blanking me, ignoring me when I say hello…). Thankfully I have very little to do with her, and our working patterns meant we only saw each other rarely (she in the office next to mine).
She has now become bezzie mates and smoking buddy of another colleague that I actually used to get on with ok. It wasn’t that long ago we’d have little chats and exchange pleasantries… not any more! She now blanks me (she is one of these who cackles loudly in the corridor and trills away to everyone) and I am now Dead To Her…). These are women in their 40s. I’m being mean girled by grown ass women.
Fuckit, I hate atmospheres! I am too old for this shit. We’ve recently merged and I’m hoping she gets the push (ok so I know that’s so horrible but, feh).
What do I do?