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Universal credit help

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Triangle24 · 12/07/2024 06:08

Hi im wondering if anyone can help me.
I currently live with my partner, we've been having a bit of a rough time lately but neither one of us can afford to move out.he works full time..I don't work currently since having my 2yo. We don't get any help with childcare costs and we can't afford the £80 a day for him to go to nursery. The long and short is our relationship is ending due to lots of reasons. But we are going to have to live together for the foreseeable until we can figure out what to do.

Currently we get a small UC top up a month, it's a joint claim. A friend told me that I could go to the DWP and tell them we are not longer a couple but living together for the money doe to circumstance and that we could change the claim to a single claim for myself. Ex wouldnt get anything on a single claim..assuming as our top up is based on me and DS. Would I be eligible for full UC? Even though he still lives here our finances would be becoming separate? But he would lay half of everything, currently he lays everything. I hope this makes sense. I also receive a disability benefit.

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FunLurker · 12/07/2024 06:14

Never claimed UC but step daughter has and to what I know yes you can claim separately bit you have to live like house mates, no cooking for each other, or doing each other's washing. I would also imagine you'd need separate bedrooms.

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 12/07/2024 06:14

Yes you can, a colleague did this. She also split her council tax liability 50/50 so her 50% was covered by UC.
They divorced, sold up and moved after six months.

BleachedJumper · 12/07/2024 06:15

Are you renting? If so, how long is left on the tenancy? Is it in joint names?

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Theunamedcat · 12/07/2024 06:19

It would be simpler if he left some people are getting refused a single claim others are being accused of fraudulent claims

Triangle24 · 12/07/2024 06:25

FunLurker · 12/07/2024 06:14

Never claimed UC but step daughter has and to what I know yes you can claim separately bit you have to live like house mates, no cooking for each other, or doing each other's washing. I would also imagine you'd need separate bedrooms.

That's practically.how we live now..we have a third bedroom which is where he has been sleeping for the last three months.

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Triangle24 · 12/07/2024 06:26

Theunamedcat · 12/07/2024 06:19

It would be simpler if he left some people are getting refused a single claim others are being accused of fraudulent claims

He won't leave. On the other hand, I can't leave, I have to think about DS. The council won't entertain me because I do not have a local connection to the area as I relocated here for this relationship, I don't know anyone or have any family or friends nearby to help me and similarly I don't want to be dumped in a hotel or hotel or something or intentionally make myself homeless.

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Triangle24 · 12/07/2024 06:27

BleachedJumper · 12/07/2024 06:15

Are you renting? If so, how long is left on the tenancy? Is it in joint names?

Yes we rent and it is a joint. We have a long term lease though I'm not sure how long is left.

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Triangle24 · 12/07/2024 06:28

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 12/07/2024 06:14

Yes you can, a colleague did this. She also split her council tax liability 50/50 so her 50% was covered by UC.
They divorced, sold up and moved after six months.

Thank you. I just wouldn't want to be accused of being fraudulent. But he won't leave and I don't want to leave with a toddler in tow and have no where to go or unsettle DS. He has special needs and needs some routine and some kind of normalcy for now until we can figure it out.

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BleachedJumper · 12/07/2024 08:02

I can understand the difficulty you are in op. How far are you from your original home? Do you have a support network there? Family/friends etc. do you have a good support system in the area you are in now?

Triangle24 · 12/07/2024 08:17

BleachedJumper · 12/07/2024 08:02

I can understand the difficulty you are in op. How far are you from your original home? Do you have a support network there? Family/friends etc. do you have a good support system in the area you are in now?

I'm about 60 miles from my hometown. I don't really have any friends nearby and I only have my parents in my hometown. Moving back with them isn't really an option right now.

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