My brother was married to his wife for over thirty years. I was a teenager when they got together and she’s been present all my adult life. We always got on well. They unexpectedly got divorced two years ago. I stayed in touch with my sister in law but they lived at the other end of the country so have only seen her once since they split.
I’ve tried to arrange to see her twice whilst we’ve been in her area and she’s cancelled both times at the last minute. The first time she said she was going to see her friend so cancelled me and the second time she said it was too early in the day for a visit so cancelled.
Am I right in thinking she’s not interested in keeping in contact from now on. I don’t want to keep embarrassing myself by suggesting we get together when she doesn’t seem interested. I know it might be that she doesn’t feel we have a connection any more. What would you think if you were me.