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I have a stupid question... I think

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Teeeens33 · 03/07/2024 20:29

If I lend some one 20.00 and they pay it back 1 week later. They then ask to borrow 20.00 2 weeks later. They then pay that back 5 days later . Then borrow 20.00 again 1 week later.... and it just gos on.

My ex told me if that keeps happening im never actually getting my 20.00 back. Is that true. He's confused me 🤣

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Kovus · 03/07/2024 21:25

DustyMaiden · 03/07/2024 21:17

I agree in reality you don’t get it back.
scenario 1 - she borrows £20 never gives it back, you are £20 down.

scenario 2 She borrows £20 , pays it back, borrows it again. You are £20 down. What’s the difference? You feel like you got it back.

The difference is OP has agency and there is more than one transaction in the chain. This is why in the cow question the answer is £400 - an intermediary made the £100.

If someone asks "Do you need a parachute to jump out of a plane?" the answer is clearly 'No'. But if you look at it laterally, you only need the parachute the first time if you want to jump out of a plane for a second time.

The borrower, by repaying, is giving OP a metaphorical parachute. But when they stop repaying the parachute has failed.

Until then, OP is sometimes at risk but the borrower is not.

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