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Awful dreams help?

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Lavender14 · 02/07/2024 16:53

So every now and then I get these nightmares that are horrific. Think very, very gruesome and graphic, extremely vivid and feel very real and emotional - content is always very distressing and usually relating to someone I care about like my parents, dh or ds and usually involves them dying/ being in the process of dying or waiting for something horrific to happen. I wake up feeling so upset and shaken and it can sometimes knock me off for the whole day especially the ones about something happening to ds who's only a baby.

I've had them on and off for a few years now particularly around times of stress and they got especially bad when I was pregnant but I put that down to pregnancy itself. But I've been having them lately again and I'm not overly stressed, I feel like I'm doing OK so why am I plagued with these! I try to monitor what I watch especially around bedtime, practice good sleep hygiene and try to meditate etc before bed so I'm going to sleep on a good mind set but it feels like these just come out of nowhere. Anyone been through similar and find anything helped?

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Greaterorlesser · 02/07/2024 16:59

Do you sleep on your back or side?

Lavender14 · 02/07/2024 19:08

I think I move between the both during the night? Usually I start out on my side but might roll onto my back. I know I snore a lot so dh would generally wake or roll me back over if I'm on my back and start snoring.

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Greaterorlesser · 02/07/2024 19:49

It’s a well known phenomenon that sleeping on your back often produces nightmares, especially as you’ve said you snore. Sleeping on your back can cause breathing difficulties and you therefore have a nightmare. Same as if you have a full bladder you can end up dreaming about looking for a toilet!

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PFBGirlAlert · 02/07/2024 19:54

Hormonal? I had awful vivid nightmares when pregnant too. Also, not every month, but definitely linked to periods. I'm now in peri- menopause and they are getting more frequent. I've always had bad internal temperature control just before and on my period, maybe it's linked to over-heating whilst asleep?

Lavender14 · 02/07/2024 21:43

Possibly, I usually sleep with an open window and our duvet is quite light with a blanket on top but dh is like a radiator. My hormones have been up the left since pregnancy so that's definitely a possibility.

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