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Singing lessons experiences please (especially if you are awful)

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PocketfulOfRye · 28/06/2024 00:19

I've always wanted to be able to sing and have fantasised about it since I was a child. I love music and love singing and I would absolutely love to at least just be ok enough that I'm unremarkable.

I know a lot of people will say it's something you're just born with and can't be taught but I disagree. I think some are (much) naturally better than others to start with but it can be taught. From what I've read very few people are completely tone deaf and incapable of improving and those people often aren't as into music anyway.

I definitely don't think I'm tone deaf as I can literally hear the difference between high and low pitches but I think I'm worse than average. Most people seem to naturally be able to hear something and replicate it but I find it very difficult.

So I'm thinking of singing lessons but I'm embarrassed. When their website says they work with all abilities I wonder what range they've actually encountered.

For singing teachers or those who know them - how remarkable is someone who is absolutely terrible at singing getting lessons likely to be? Do you have to fight the urge to laugh?

Those who have had lessons how were they? What kind of techniques and exercises did you do? Were you embarrassed? Did you turn up and quickly have to just burst into song?

How long until you saw an improvement and how long to go from "is someone strangling a cat" to passable.

OP posts:
Moomin37 · 28/06/2024 14:52

Thanks ever so much @BingoMarieHeeler ☺️

Lolalady · 20/02/2025 18:28

I’ve been singing with the Rock Choir for nearly 3 years. Best thing ever. If you want to sing but don’t feel very confident about going it alone I would highly recommend it

Wigeon · 20/02/2025 18:38

A good teacher will be delighted to help you improve - and I think you'll probably see improvement pretty quickly. I'm sure they won't judge you! Definitely go for it!

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Wigeon · 20/02/2025 18:39

Just realised this was a thread from last summer! @PocketfulOfRye please update as to whether you got lessons!

Catandsquirrel · 20/02/2025 18:43

Please start singing OP!! I'm trying to build it the confidence too!

My mum has a naturally talented but untrained voice and has joined an informal choir, think rock choir. She tried a more formal one where the ladies had either musical training or choral singing experience and was put off. She was welcomed and encouraged but felt she wanted something more straightforward so she ducked out and found somewhere with all abilities where people just join in simple arrangements of well known songs. Loves it.

My partner is musical and has talent but if I'm honest has to work to bring it out, it's not effortless. He has an online vocal coach and either plays guitar or she plays piano while he sings. She works on his range and ability within his own style using songs he wants to sing. It started with vocal exercises, not just being expected to belt out My Way. There are loads on YouTube. You feel really silly but it's normal!

He too tried another coach who wasn't a good fit first so don't be disheartened if you don't find the right fit first time. I hope you enjoy it, they do!!

Catandsquirrel · 20/02/2025 18:43

Oh didn't realise it was old!

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