My brothers are due to spend thousands of their own money to bail my mother other. Complicated situation.
They can't fully see through our mother. What they don't know is that our mother is extremely manipulative. They don't know that our mother hates their wives. Their partners are not bad people and they are nice people. Our mother hates them for one simple reason - she seems these women as threats against her and HER SONS - HER BOYS - she still views her sons as baby boys who are adult.
They can't see this because she's able to act enough.
Do I tell my brothers or let them spend thousands. Some day my mother will show her the colours in regards their partners.