So it's my bday.
I've not had such a great day at work, fine. To be honest I don't care that much for bday but it's always painful for me as I lost my parents young and I miss that parental love to be honest.
This is so much ridiculous of me to write but I worry I've gone gone very wrong with my oldest dd 16 and she's doest actually care for me at all.
She shoved a card at me with no affection or excitement at all.
Then she physically barged past me to say something to her dad which he handed her a present that she then shoved at me.
I said thank you hugged her and said can I open it later I've just got in the door.
I'll have it when we eat.
I had to pop out again and when I returned I asked if she could put a table cloth on the outdoor table and she grunted then asked her sister to do it. I asked her if she was unwell and said no.
She then extremely nastily said " I'll do it, I'll end up doing it anyway."
She dies nothing around the the house, absolutely nothing!!
She is supposed to do two very small jobs which I didn't ask her to do during gcse.
She doesn't help with food making or washing, no chores except the two she's not done.
I feel hurt.... It feels like a lack of care and love. She doesn't want to make it a nice day for me.