I've been in my new role now for a few months, and by nature it's quite a perfectionistic role (it involves quality control/reviewing documents). I am quite perfectionistic by nature too (hence why I was drawn to the role), but my manager is a whole different level entirely. In our first meeting when I started the job she spent the meeting going through my assessment I did when applying for the job and highlighting anything I did wrong (despite being good enough to have gotten the job?) I'm starting to feel like I'm bad at the job and worried about passing my probation as even several months into the role my manager is still picking up on things when she is checking my work. However, when I look at my manager's work to use as examples, I notice minor things too and if I reviewed their work with the level of detail and fine combing that they give my work I'd probably be able to find things to comment on.
For the last few weeks my manager hasn't been checking my work, but last week as I was doing a new task she wanted to take a look and it's knocked my confidence again. The things I've been picked up on have been adding an Oxford comma into a list in an internal-facing document (despite it being our internal style to use Oxford commas, apparently for this specific niche example we don't use an Oxford comma). I also have to cross-reference several documents at once, and last week I read between the lines that something was accurate based on some assumptions made in the text and to my best knowledge and my manager disagreed and wrote a long email about why I was wrong as it wasn't explicitly said that that was the case. I've been worrying about it all weekend, thinking that she doesn't trust my judgement and I'm not meeting expectations.
Does anyone have any advice? I really like the role and the company aside from this.