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Teacher's birthday

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ijustneedtokeepbreathing · 21/06/2024 18:53

Maybe I am being miserable and tight about this, I don't know. My Dc's teacher has told the whole class when her birthday is (the exact date, as opposed to "next month" etc). There is now a flurry of activity amongst some of the parents to buy gifts and bake cakes.

I have never known this to happen before. It feels a bit wrong to me. There are families in the class who definitely can't afford to buy gifts, while there is also a group of extremely wealthy parents, who are driving this.

It feels way, way too much to me, esp with end of term gifts so close. I doubt the teacher told them with any of this in mind and probably doesn't expect anything at all, but this is ... A bit bonkers, right?

Surely birthday gifts for teachers aren't a "thing"?!

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BingoMarieHeeler · 21/06/2024 19:50

That’s bananas and v unnecessary. I’d say so tbh, on whatever class Facebook page/whatsapp group you have.
I’d just say ‘just to make sure no-one feels pressure to buy for Mrs. X - I’m sure she won’t be expecting it and although she’s wonderful there are certainly more important things to spend on. All the teachers I know love a handmade card the most!’

Devastated999 · 21/06/2024 19:57

One of my kids’ teachers in primary1, told them the date, had a countdown to it and unbelievably what wine they liked. Some kids did come in with bottle bags on his birthday. Mental!

ijustneedtokeepbreathing · 21/06/2024 19:59

@Devastated999 that is so brazen!!

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TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 21/06/2024 20:08

Let this one go, but perhaps discretely find out when the teachers first snog was, then first snog-plus(!) and the 'big one' and send humerous cards for each occasion as a friendly nudge-nudge-wink.

Timeturnerplease · 21/06/2024 20:11

I refuse to tell my class when my birthday is so they don’t start giving me cards etc. Far too embarrassing! Most teachers I know feel the same. If this person let slip by accident, I bet he/she’s mortified now.

Pieceofpurplesky · 21/06/2024 20:43

I had a teacher colleague like this who just wanted love - it was sad really as she had no friends in real life and the presents would be plastered all over social media with 'the kids live me' #blessed messages etc,

Anon9898 · 22/06/2024 16:36

We did do this for my older son's teacher but only as it was a special birthday. She was 40

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