Hi quick question
My ex gf’s mum is a real toxic grandma. And was toxic to my ex when she was a child. She didn’t speak to her mum for a while until her first daughter was born. Then her mum came back around like a changed person so she felt like she had to give her a chance. Fast forward 15 years after the oldest daughter has built up a close bond with the grandma and she’s had to go no contact and cut the grandma off because she’s been filling the oldest daughter head with toxic stuff and turning her against her mum & it’s become really bad. She’s then found out that her daughter have been sneaking around and meeting and comunacating through email. The grandmas end goal is to fully turn her daughter against the mum and won’t be happy until her granddaughter has moved in with her toxic right. She’s got 2 other grandkids that are to young to sneak around so has cut them off and is only botherd about the oldest. My ex has got serious health and dosent have enodless years or else she would let it play out & wait until the oldest daughter was older enough and mature enough to see what her grandma is like in time. What can we do has any got any suggestions as it’s not fair on the oldest daughter that’s brain washed by her grandma.