Not sure why anyone thinks they shouldn’t face manslaughter charges.
OK, there is no forensic evidence to show that Victoria died of cold (the forensic evidence was lost in that Lidl bag 😢), but in CM’s own account she zipped the baby inside her coat to keep her warm, and was then so tired she fell asleep. When she woke up the poor baby was dead.
On MN mothers constantly advise and set people straight about the slightest risk from the wrong sort of covers, danger of smothering from a cot bumper etc etc. How is sitting upright in a teeny tent (nothing to support you) with your baby’s head zipped inside a winter, presumably wind proof coat and therefor not permeable to air, not causing the baby’s death? Albeit not intentionally.
She said her plan was to advertise on Gumtree to get someone who would look after Victoria and then smuggle her abroad.
Would posters on this thread really be so sympathetic to a thread posted on MN thus:
Help! Need to give birth in secret so SS don’t take my baby.
It’s complicated but I am devastated to have lost 4 of my kids to SS. We were a bit chaotic with our living situation and were actually living in a tent in Wales when one was born and have never had a fixed address, and also I have a toxic family who have caused all sorts of trouble.
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So now I’m pg and desperate to keep this baby. How can I give birth in secret and keep the baby until we can somehow get it abroad? Any advice? It will be hard to get a passport but I can find someone on Gumtree to smuggle the baby to us maybe?
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Getting abroad is hard anyway as my DP has a conviction (rape and serious assault) and we have SO much red tape getting him abroad top.
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Any advice?
Followed by:
AIBU to live in a tent with a newborn?
Update on my previous thread! I gave birth to a darling girl on Xmas Eve, in an AirBnB! Magical, no one but us knows she exists. Luckily we didn’t need any medical help, yay!
Anyway, it’s got tricky. We were moving around, place to place, hotels, sleeping in the car, never in the same place for more than a day, trying to work out how we could get a place to rent for a while, or get out of the country. I just don’t want SS or the authorities to know about my baby.
The car broke down and caught fire. Luckily none of us were hurt but we lost loads of cash and my passport and all the baby clothes and equipment. We managed a couple of nights in hotels but now my family have set the bloody police on our tail. I am determined not to talk to SS.
AIBU to think we can live in a tent for a while until we can get smuggled abroad? It won’t take long to arrange, maybe a week or so? I know it’s winter and we’d have to stay off grid with no water or electricity, but we could put Dd in the footmuff from her pushchair or I could zip her into my coat.
Any campers around? AIBU to think Dd would be fine? She’s nearly 2 weeks old.
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