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Batshittery that was normal back in the day

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Pleasetakeaseat · 19/06/2024 12:43

Smoking upstairs on buses

Smoking / non-smoking areas in restaurants

Smoking rooms in hospitals

Teachers going for boozy lunches and teaching afternoon classes pissed (my English teacher was always smashed by 1pm 🤣)

Chopper bikes with that brake thing in the middle that could easily disembowel you if you weren't careful

White van men picking up their underage girlfriends from school

White van men thinking schools were a good place to pull

Little kids being sent to the shop on their bikes for their parents booze and fags, and no law against shopkeepers serving them

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wavingfuriously · 21/06/2024 21:19

Phoebefail · 20/06/2024 15:28

Block appointments in Outpatients. Six or eight patients being given a 9.00am appt. Doc or Specialist seeing us in order that we arrived. It was considered OK because it meant that Mr (Who was very important) did not wait about. My DH complained one time and Surgeon said "Well, as you are Self-employed you should consider paying for Private Treatment."

Yep they had 'godlike' status in those days..never made a mistake..no accountability 😡🤬

wavingfuriously · 21/06/2024 21:23

GandDiva · 20/06/2024 18:35

I worked on a psychiatric ward until 2009 and they still had a smoking room then. It was awful if a patient was on a 1:1 as staff had to sit in there with them, and probably 6 other patients. The smell was awful and it was hard to breathe in there sometimes.

Psychiatrists were allowed to be MAD😜 then, now they'd be booted out (hope)

Yogibearspicnic · 21/06/2024 21:49

RosesAndHellebores · 20/06/2024 23:15

I remember winning gold fish at the fair.

Also dolphinariums - so cruel looking back.

Litters of puppies or kittens in pet shop windows! Unimaginable now.

Some fairs still have goldfish you can win. Stourport, which is a fixed rather than recalling fair, does, and rather handily if you 'win' one they also happen to sell bowls and bits to put it in!

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Lalog · 21/06/2024 22:32

wavingfuriously · 21/06/2024 21:15

Porn shops especially in Soho where there were loads of them..

Top shelf tits and bums soft porn magazines, I remember feeling really shocked and attacked those things even existed 😑
...and the type of men that bought them..

I remember one time a bloke in front of me in the corner shop bought about ten of them. As the guy behind the counter was ringing them through he just stood there implacable. An older West Indian guy clocked him and said "Well sir, that's quite the collection you've got there. You really have no respect for women at all, do you?" I was so glad he chose to take a stand.

Of course now these guys just go on the internet and far worse is there all freely laid out for them, with no public shaming whatsoever.

wavingfuriously · 21/06/2024 22:35

CreamStick · 21/06/2024 16:10

I can remember when police did nothing if a man beat his wife and neither did the neighbours. Some people thought the woman deserved it . Unless you were raped by a stranger the woman was not believed. If you complained about sexual harassment you were a prude or a spoilsport. I can remember when a woman couldn't get a
Mortgage or a bank account without a man's permission. If a man got a woman pregnant and did a runner people said "Bloody good luck to him".

Totally biased towards the man. thank f**k things have changed 🙏

AnnieSnap · 21/06/2024 22:56

TheThingIsYeah · 21/06/2024 20:49

I'm not denying it, of course you are right. But at the same time, women gave as good as they got. When I started work in The City in the mid-90s - boy could those ladies handle themselves. And the language would make a docker blush.

Being able to swear like a docker hardly compares to the sexual harassment that was considered banter, or the misogyny.

Thevelvelletes · 21/06/2024 23:00

And for the majority conditions and sexual harassment,no prospects were the norm.
My elderly mum told me how she was ordered to fetch the boss his newspaper.
Get his wife's shopping..not a high powered job..an Asda assistant in the 70s

TheThingIsYeah · 21/06/2024 23:18

AnnieSnap · 21/06/2024 22:56

Being able to swear like a docker hardly compares to the sexual harassment that was considered banter, or the misogyny.

You must have missed the bit where I said they gave as good as they got.

AnnieSnap · 22/06/2024 00:05

TheThingIsYeah · 21/06/2024 23:18

You must have missed the bit where I said they gave as good as they got.

No I didn’t miss that. They did not give as good as they got!

Lalog · 22/06/2024 00:11

It would be a very special swear word indeed that "gave" 2,000 years of patriarchy.

cupcaske123 · 22/06/2024 08:59

TheThingIsYeah · 21/06/2024 23:18

You must have missed the bit where I said they gave as good as they got.

I imagine most women want to go to work and be treated with dignity and respect. Not have to battle misogynistic 'banter' and 'give as good as they got'.

Tryonemoretime · 22/06/2024 09:14

And sliding neatly away from the past with its sexual 'banter' / terrible misogyny etc....
My first bra (aged about 12) would have done Madonna proud. Sharply pointed cups and circular stitching. And does anyone else remember their father wearing stinky nylon shirts and vests made of string?

scalt · 22/06/2024 09:15

After a few mentions of “the slipper” at school, I’ve heard a few older people recalling being punished with the slipper at home, and how their parents would check the “smackability” of slippers when buying them. These same people say that most modern slippers are no good for this purpose, with their plastic soles.

RosesAndHellebores · 22/06/2024 11:07

When Factor 6 was regarded as a high spf.

In 1961 MIL had to stop teaching before she she started to "show" too much when pregnant. No job to return to.

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 22/06/2024 11:18

scalt · 22/06/2024 09:15

After a few mentions of “the slipper” at school, I’ve heard a few older people recalling being punished with the slipper at home, and how their parents would check the “smackability” of slippers when buying them. These same people say that most modern slippers are no good for this purpose, with their plastic soles.

So they've tried them, then...?

Everysand · 22/06/2024 11:27

RosesAndHellebores · 22/06/2024 11:07

When Factor 6 was regarded as a high spf.

In 1961 MIL had to stop teaching before she she started to "show" too much when pregnant. No job to return to.

Yes, I used to go on holiday and use factors 2, 4 and 6, 2 and 4 for normal use and 6 for high burn areas, I also used to use factor 2 oil as it was supposedly more 'tanning' than cream, that's probably why I have BCCs on my legs now.

scalt · 22/06/2024 12:26

OnTheRightSideOfGeography · 22/06/2024 11:18

So they've tried them, then...?

Oh yes. Probably not on another person, but they say they automatically see how bendy they are, tapping them on their own hand in the shop.

And I’m glad that we no longer see children smacked in public, and hear them howling into the distance.

WhatNoRaisins · 22/06/2024 12:33

I've a family member that used to get put under a sun lamp as a child to get her skin ready before a sunny holiday.

RagzRebooted · 22/06/2024 12:49

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Pedallleur · 22/06/2024 12:54

Lalog · 21/06/2024 22:32

I remember one time a bloke in front of me in the corner shop bought about ten of them. As the guy behind the counter was ringing them through he just stood there implacable. An older West Indian guy clocked him and said "Well sir, that's quite the collection you've got there. You really have no respect for women at all, do you?" I was so glad he chose to take a stand.

Of course now these guys just go on the internet and far worse is there all freely laid out for them, with no public shaming whatsoever.

Remember going through Soho in the 80s. Business men reading the cards in the phone boxes eg gas mask/rubber boots for sale or French lessons given and the viewers writing the phone numbers down. The Adult book shops that seemed to everywhere like vape shops are now. Do they even sell printed material now?

Pedallleur · 22/06/2024 13:01

Nylon shirts and blouses. Bri-nylon as it was advertised. No ironing involved. Everyone then talked about the P word. Going to the P* shop and certain types use it now. 70s particularly. My parents witnessed an influx of people from the sub continent coming here to work. Then we had Ugandan Asians coming here to steal our jobs/benefits. And what about those 'poofs' ready to molest our children? Not like those nice Priests, policemen, TV presenters.Plus c'est change...

cupcaske123 · 22/06/2024 13:02

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Did you invite your 'boyfriend' over for dinner? I'm gobsmacked.

Ilovecleaning · 22/06/2024 13:14

RosesAndHellebores · 22/06/2024 11:07

When Factor 6 was regarded as a high spf.

In 1961 MIL had to stop teaching before she she started to "show" too much when pregnant. No job to return to.

Possibly depended on where you lived. I was at ‘junior’ school in 1962. I remember a heavily pregnant teacher. We had a collection for a baby present and she returned to teach the following year.

Ilovecleaning · 22/06/2024 13:23

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Cookerhood · 22/06/2024 13:25

Our friends in Glasgow still refer to corner shops as P* shops. I was absolutely horrified. They didn't even know what it meant.

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