I have terminal cancer with spread to spine, hip, pelvis, liver and other areas.
I am under hospice for pain management and on palliative chemo and have been for the last 3 years.
I was taken to a&e by my husband on Monday as I was unable to make my arm move from the position it was in, I felt my brain couldn't make it move. It then started moving of its own accord. It didn't last long but I was terrified it was a seizure and my husband was initially worried I was having a stroke.
I had only had chemo 4 days before. When we got to a&e the waiting room was totally full with people standing all over too. The reception staff were lovely, but they didn't have a room for me to wait in as so full so I had to wait outside ( due to being immunocompromised)
We were triaged quickly and established it wasn't a stroke but we ended up waiting 12 hours to see a Dr, we were there from 7pm til approx 7am the next day. For the first 4 hours I was outside, my husband got me a chair from the waiting room. It took 7 hours for them to give me some morphine.
My experience was like others have said, there seemed to be full families in the waiting room whenever my husband went in. The initial nurse that triaged me was lovely, but after that the nurses I saw were cold and lacking any form of empathy or care. Some of the things I heard from the patients around though, I can totally understand why the nurses can end up with that manner.
I understand it's a totally different environment, I spend a lot of time at the hospital and hospice and the nurses on the chemo unit etc are the absolute opposite. I think for a&e staff it must be an awful job.
I just would hate to think if it was an elderly relative etc in my situation having to sit outside in a hard chair for hours and go without any pain relief.