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Attendance and carers allowance

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Cooper77 · 18/06/2024 17:37

My brother (in his 30s) lives with my mum. He doesn't work, but he doesn't claim any benefits either (he never has). My mother is retired and they both live off the money my dad left. She also owns the house.

Because he doesn't work or claim benefits I'm worried that he's not paying National Insurance and won't get a state pension. My mother suffers depression and has been on Prozac for years. In a sense he is her carer, since he takes her out, and generally does what he can to lift her mood. He's a bit lazy, and has had his share of mental health issues, but I think the main reason he doesn't work is that he doesn't like to leave her on her own. Do you think he'd qualify for carer's allowance? It isn't so much the money, more that I want him in the system paying NI.

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LadyKenya · 18/06/2024 17:41

Yes.

unlimiteddilutingjuice · 18/06/2024 17:45

If your mum is receiving either PIP or Attendance Allowance, your brother can claim Carers Allowance fairly easily.
If not, he won't qualify.

Claiming PIP or AA is possibly worth it for your mum, but its a really tough process and many people find it upsetting.

TBH I wouldn't encourage someone to claim, purely in order for someone else to qualify for Carers. She should do it if its worth it for her. His entitlement should be a nice bonus, if its a consideration at all.

UsernameRedacted · 18/06/2024 18:06

Even if he didn't qualify for Carers Allowance he might qualify for Carers Credit, which is basically no money but a paid National Insurance credit. Carers Credit is for someone caring for 20+ hours a week.

Nannydoodles · 18/06/2024 18:23

Would it be better to encourage him to get a job however part time, it might be good for both of them - it’s not surprising he has issues staying in with a depressed women all the time.
I’m always worried about relationships like this, what happens to your brother when your Mum dies eventually and he’s left alone ?
Sorry if I sound harsh but maybe they are both enabling each other, someone with depression on Prozac doesn’t usually need a full time carer.

Happyher · 18/06/2024 18:46

He might be able to claim Carers Credit if a health professional will confirm he provides at least 20 hours care. He will get credits on his NI account. Doesn’t have to be getting carers allowance. The form is on gov.uk

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