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Weird to go to a birthday treat for myself on my own?

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Sunflowersinthewind · 17/06/2024 21:32

Just seen a lovely concert near me on my birthday. I can't think of anyone I know that would enjoy it. Is it weird to ask for someone to look after my son so I can go? I never ever ask for childcare but after a crappy birthday last year, I wouldnt mind doing something I enjoy.

Also I am a bit worried I will find it lonely on my own too

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SnowFrogJelly · 18/06/2024 10:22

Not weird! I love doing things on my own

DappledThings · 18/06/2024 10:51

Not at all weird, you'll have a lovely time

BeaRF75 · 18/06/2024 10:53

Not at all - go! I recently had a birthday which I completely ignored, coz I think birthdays are a bit weird. But when I do treat myself for any reason, I am always more than happy to fly solo - that's part of the treat, tbh.

GodlessCommie · 18/06/2024 10:54

Hell yes, sounds blissful. I'm going to an obscure opera by myself for mine and can't wait!

Sunflowersinthewind · 18/06/2024 11:11

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 18/06/2024 09:50

Sounds great. I'm off to the Sargent exhibition at the Tate by myself for my birthday next month, and then taking myself out to lunch. I might have some retail therapy at Battersea Power Station, as well.

Sounds amazing enjoy!

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Sunflowersinthewind · 18/06/2024 18:35

Ok I booked it!!!!! Think I have sorted someone to come round and look after my DS too. Excited!

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Woahtherehoney · 18/06/2024 18:44

Sunflowersinthewind · 18/06/2024 18:35

Ok I booked it!!!!! Think I have sorted someone to come round and look after my DS too. Excited!

Have an amazing time OP! I love doing things by myself - I’d rather that than go with someone who is coming for the sake of it. I’ve been to a few shows and podcast recordings by myself and loved it.

also agree with having cake for when you get home!

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