4 years ago dd was in a DV relationship. He got arrested sent to prison whilst he was in prison dd and him had contact. This led to a PLO with social services. Dd almost lost her child. It was an awful time. She had social services around for roughly 3.5 years thru only closed the case 4ish months ago.
She met someone else whilst the above was happening there,was basically a 2 week gap before she met her current partner. So thry have been together 4isj years for the 1st couple of years the relationship was ok. He was there through all that happend and was supportive etc. They have have a baby together. He's 1 years old. Things started to go down hill and he started ti get nasty to dd. And just over a month ago he best her up police had ti be called etc.
This led to a merlin report social services made contact. Dd explained that he's out on bail no contact allowed. Dd started by saying that she would allowed him to see the baby if uts supervised by his mum. The social worker on the phone said she wanted to check with her manager. Social worker got back to her a couple days later and said that was OK. But on the same phone call dd told the social worker about her ex mental health and some of the stuff he's done to himself . The social worker then said now youvjave told me that he cant see the baby until he's sorted his own mental health out.
Few days ago dd found out her ex was sering someone else she sobbed and sobbed got her self into a bad state. To the point she could not be at home on her own . And I was taking her child to school and looking after her baby.
Suddenly yesterday her mood lifts and she meets her friend in the park whos a muteral friend. Apprently the friend said don't worry you don't have any competition she's a horrible person and she's already Been behinde his back. I said " whys he even telling you that why do you need to know if your not getting back together and she said hes just saying it in general.
Dd friend contacted me yesterday telling me dd has been I'm contact with him since the who things started maybe apart from the fust 4 days or so . And to be honest i think I believe her. Dd does not knowcthe friend told me.
Dd told me yesterday the friend had accused her of still seeing her ex and dd said she has not and I said that I'm not sure i believe her (as in dd) and I said I think its a repeat of the E situation. And I told her that he's going to end up hurting her again police will get called and you will grt your kids taken away.
She started shitting saying i spoke to social services ages ago they have already said he can see the baby ad long as I supervise it abd he'd sorted his mental health. I'm not going to lose my fucking kids when it's already been said it's OK. So she's changed her story from his mum supervising to her supervising herself. Which to me is the route she's using to see him and to rekindle things.
So what do I do .