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What deadly women or female killer case shook you to your core?

64 replies

datcherygrateful · 09/06/2024 10:36

I'm a fan of true crime and recall one particular episode I watched- I think it was Kate Webster and Leonarda Cianculli.

I steer well away from watching any episodes pertaining to children as I cannot cope but aside from that, cases from Victorian period or early 20th century creep me out.

What are yours?

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CheeryUser · 09/10/2024 18:16

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 09/06/2024 10:45

Scarlet Blake: for nearly two years the police and the media told the public that a female killer was on the loose in Oxford. When she was finally arrested and brought to trial, this was reported as a woman killing in a very brutal way a young, tall, fit man.

Only Scarlet is, as the Police Commissioner for Thames Valley pointed out, a man

I hadn’t heard about this. Not ideal for crime stats!

StMarieforme · 09/10/2024 18:51

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 09/10/2024 16:00

It didnt' shake me to my core but I think a lot about the Sylvia Likens case and what exactly went on in that house.

Also Lacey Fletcher, though her father was equally culpable as her mother so not exactly a female case.

Such an awful case. Incredible that so many people were involved and all simply went along with it.

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 09/10/2024 19:07

StMarieforme · 09/10/2024 18:51

Such an awful case. Incredible that so many people were involved and all simply went along with it.

Exactly, I'm not aware of any other case where so many relatively normal children became so easily involved in physical torture with seemingly no hesitation or qualms.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 09/10/2024 19:10

Sarah Lloyd Jones killing her disabled daughter, Kaylea Titford. It was six months of criminal neglect, a very slow and painful death.
The dad, Alun Titford, went to prison as well for watching it and doing nothing.

Craftysue · 09/10/2024 19:13

Beverley Allitt - absolutely horrific and heartbreaking for the families.

username3678 · 09/10/2024 19:13

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 09/10/2024 19:10

Sarah Lloyd Jones killing her disabled daughter, Kaylea Titford. It was six months of criminal neglect, a very slow and painful death.
The dad, Alun Titford, went to prison as well for watching it and doing nothing.

Edited

The dad got a higher sentence.

MermaidEyes · 09/10/2024 19:19

There are a few but ones that spring to mind are the Canadian Karla Homolka who drugged, raped and killed her own little sister as well as assisted her husband Paul Bernardo in kidnapping and raping young girls.

This for me too. I have family who live not too far from where this happened. And to think she's now married with children of her own.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 09/10/2024 19:20

username3678 · 09/10/2024 19:13

The dad got a higher sentence.

Yes, because she plead guilty and he plead not guilty. A guilty plea gets you an automatic discount off your sentence.

Sara was Kaylea’s primary carer. Her Dad tried to say it was nothing to do with him and he hadn’t noticed Sara not caring for Kaylea properly.

username3678 · 09/10/2024 19:22

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 09/10/2024 19:20

Yes, because she plead guilty and he plead not guilty. A guilty plea gets you an automatic discount off your sentence.

Sara was Kaylea’s primary carer. Her Dad tried to say it was nothing to do with him and he hadn’t noticed Sara not caring for Kaylea properly.

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I see. All I really remember is her screaming and her dad texting her to stop.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 09/10/2024 19:25

username3678 · 09/10/2024 19:22

I see. All I really remember is her screaming and her dad texting her to stop.

That was her last night alive. The case is really heartbreaking. It was a deliberate campaign of neglect for six months where her mum not only didn’t care for Kaylea (resulting in her death from infection), she also lied to the school and refused help to cover it up. Her mum,Sara, is a trained healthcare professional in caring for disabled people so she absolutely knew that her neglect would cause Kaylea to die and she absolutely knew her daughter was suffering and in pain.

username3678 · 09/10/2024 19:30

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 09/10/2024 19:25

That was her last night alive. The case is really heartbreaking. It was a deliberate campaign of neglect for six months where her mum not only didn’t care for Kaylea (resulting in her death from infection), she also lied to the school and refused help to cover it up. Her mum,Sara, is a trained healthcare professional in caring for disabled people so she absolutely knew that her neglect would cause Kaylea to die and she absolutely knew her daughter was suffering and in pain.

As usual with these cases, I find it incomprehensible. I can certainly understand how a parent could be at the end of their tether but I'm sure the family were offered support and of course her dad was in the house. It's completely inhumane.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/10/2024 19:36

I hadn’t heard about this. Not ideal for crime stats!

No. Thankfully he's in a male prison though.

XenoBitch · 09/10/2024 19:46

Newuser75 · 09/10/2024 15:55

Joanna Dennehy. I watched a documentary about her and it was chilling!

Came here to mention her too. She just went up to, and stabbed random people for a thrill. A very sick woman.

The PP about finding murder cases "entertaining" is silly to me. We need people to have an interest in these things so they work in that field (catching criminals, not becoming one!). I met a female cop who got into policing after reading about Dennehy.

RancidOldHag · 09/10/2024 19:55

The Moors murders, so Myra Hindley.

It chilled me as a child.

And even today, about 60 years on, and especially around Christmas, I cannot comprehend how a woman can stand by as her partner tortures and kills a little girl whilst playing the carol "Little Drummer Boy"

hattie43 · 09/10/2024 19:59

Every single woman that lets a shit partner abuse and murder their children . I mean what kind of people are these to stand by and let it happen .

soupfiend · 09/10/2024 20:03

PaperGloves · 09/10/2024 15:49

It ‘shakes me to my core’ that people view real murder as entertainment, to be speculated about and compared for thrills and chills.

Humans are interested in other humans and what they do or dont do which is outside the norm of social behaviour and cultural behaviour

Its not normal to kill someone is it?

Its not necessarily that normal to think about or want to kill someone although fleeting times someone may think about it in a particular context

So there is fascination and curiosity about people like that, why, when, how, how to prevent, what does it mean.

Its normal and natural to have an emotion about that becuase it is extreme behaviour, in any culture.

Newuser75 · 09/10/2024 20:03

TigerRag · 09/10/2024 16:05

Mary Bell

A relatives friend used to teach Mary Bell. That was a horrible case.

SammyScrounge · 10/10/2024 00:01

CheeryUser · 09/10/2024 17:56

Have you noticed that women are very rarely serial attackers unless it’s in partnership with a man e.g. Hindley, West, Karla etc. Possibly due to a difference in nature / socialisation between the sexes or maybe just because we are generally smaller / weaker?

Hindley and West took to murder like ducks to water. Each was as bad as her after.

LadyGAgain · 10/10/2024 01:30

Tracie Andrews. A chilling example of a lying murderer.

MorrisZapp · 10/10/2024 01:40

SammyScrounge · 09/10/2024 15:45

Hindley and Brady. It was the first time I realised that there were people who went hunting children to hurt and kill them.
And when I was a little older I understood how these killers had delusions about themselves.
Hindley, for example, believed
that the reason she was never released
was the famous police photograph which popped up every time she applied for parole.
It wasn't anything to do with the hideous deaths of 6 children. The children were nothing to her so why should they mean anything to anyone else?

She was correct about that photo. It remains seared in the nations consciousness and meant that she would never be paroled in her lifetime. Given the nature of her crimes, perhaps lifelong imprisonment was the correct punishment. But unlike Rose West, she never sought to offend on her own account. She was in an almost certainly coercive relationship with a psychopathic man who drove both their offending.

soupfiend · 10/10/2024 08:13

Im a bit sick of hearing that women must be in a coercive relationship if they offend with a man.

Was reading about the LIkens case last night that someone referred to, horrendous, never heard anything like it. And that the murderers were released in due course and went on and had lives (although many died young it seems)

soupfiend · 10/10/2024 08:14

I cant remember her name but can see her fac,e there was a victorian baby killer, took in babies for money to look after them but just killed them instead. I often think about that one

Daleksatemyshed · 10/10/2024 08:56

Like @RancidOldHag I was a child when the Moors murder trial happened, until then most people didn't think women became serial killers, especially of DC, and the anger women felt towards Myra Hindley was enormous. Hindley used the fact DC would trust a woman to make the victims go with them and women hated for that

LonelyMom123 · 10/10/2024 09:06

Casey Anthony. Even though she was found not guilty of murdering her little girl, I strongly doubt her innocence and her behaviour was not that of a loving Mother. My heart breaks for Caylee.

SallyWD · 10/10/2024 09:21

I find it odd that someone can be a "fan" of true crime. People (including children) being brutally tortured, raped and murdered is something you're a fan of??
I do understand having an interest in the darker side of human nature but to say you're a fan, just doesn't sit right with me...