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Have you ever met someone you still think about now?

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notyourmummy · 09/06/2024 06:47

Just that really, have you had a brief meeting with someone who you still think about years later? Mine is a tiny baby who was in hospital when my lad was, 13 years ago. He was in traction, looked like 2 broken legs, no visitors so the nurses had the radio on in his room to keep him company. I know his story to that point must've been a sad one, but I wonder where he is now and how things turned out for him.

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StopStartStop · 09/06/2024 06:54

Old people, mainly. I used to live near a pub. A double amputee made his way there, with prosthetic limbs and crutches, every night. I thought he was brave. An old man hopping with fleas bringing his laundry to a launderette, a man in torn trousers at the supermarket - clearly no-one looking after them. Old people, bent double, too old to drive, making their way to the supermarket. Breaks my heart.

Also, more cheerfully, the woman shopping in her gym-wear, super-tight. Very prominent mons pubis. If you've got it, flaunt it.

DustyLee123 · 09/06/2024 06:57

I was working in A&E and a young man came in dead, an accident on a farm where he’d grown up. He was adopted, and I sometimes wonder about his birth parents, and how they will never have got to make contact.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 09/06/2024 07:01

Decades ago I met a gorgeous lad I met on a national express coach.. (the glamour!) we'd both been to university interviews that day. ....we laughed solidly and shared our sandwiches.

He gave me his number....I promptly lost it...

Way before the days of social media shout outs!

Highfivemum · 04/10/2024 19:43

A teacher who saved my life. Amazing person who I hope is having a fabulous life.

PutOnYourRedShoesAndLetsDance · 04/10/2024 19:48

When l was at college 50 years ago ( I'm 66).. l was training to be an NNEB( Nursery nurse). We had one week in college and one week in an infants school.. each term.
For my coursework l had to focus on one child .. do a project about her.. l was given a school photo of her.. used to put her work into a folder l made.
I still remember her name and wonder how she is now.
I was 16/17 she was four years old.

Mums1234 · 04/10/2024 19:52

A few years ago I came across a lady who was trying to jump off a bridge. I was talking to her and she came down, but I often wonder about her. I hope she has found some happiness.

candlewhickgreen · 04/10/2024 19:56

Lots of people but at the moment I've been remembering a man I met at work. He was Israeli and loved life. I remember feeling a bit down and he invited me to his desk and offered me fresh figs. He was very friendly and a great conversationalist, also very thoughtful.

I've been wondering about him since the conflict started. When I knew him he was living abroad but he obviously has family in Israel. I'm sure he's very concerned so I hope he's looking after himself.

thursdaymurderclub · 04/10/2024 19:58

not brief... but the man who i fled from many years ago... he still takes up a space in my head! no idea why, i guess its because i never go any answers

Mynameistallullah · 04/10/2024 19:58

A very un-dramatic one, but I remember sharing a table with a woman at an airport bar. I think she said three words to me ("go for it" when I asked if I could share her table), but she had a lot of presence and I still remember her. Think it was about twenty years ago and I still remember her! Really weird, I was just thinking about her today

stonkytonk11 · 04/10/2024 20:00

I was travelling alone on a flight back from New York about 18 years ago and got talking to the man next to me (he was older than me and it was just interesting chat, not flirting or anything!) he was a politician from Ghana and was hoping to be the next president of the country. Can't remember much of it now but he had fascinating stories

shellyleppard · 04/10/2024 20:01

@IamtheDevilsAvocado i would have put a message on the local radio station 🤞♥️😍

mindutopia · 04/10/2024 20:06

About 20 years ago, I lived in NYC. I was walking down the street one day and a young woman maybe my age or younger (I was 23?) stopped me. She was VERY thin (looked anorexic) and very nervous, but really well dressed. She asked me if I could help her find the hospital and if she could use my phone. I’m a suspicious person, so I said no. But I pointed her in the direction of the hospital. She just looked so fragile and unwell and I’ve often wondered what happened to her. I hope she got better.

90yomakeuproom · 04/10/2024 20:12

Through work I went to a hotel that was housing illegal immigrant children and met a little girl who was just so special. She wanted to come with me and it pulled on my heart strings a lot. I often wonder where she ended up and if she's ok.

TinyRebel · 04/10/2024 20:32

Yes, travelling Portsmouth to London, late-ish evening of 17th October 2021. I was sitting opposite a woman and we got chatting. A woman in her 50s/60s came and sat next to me, with a small girl carrying a rucksack.

I gradually started to notice things throughout the journey, having initially assumed grandmother/grandaughter. Woman looked a bit weatherbeaten, had that alcoholic/heavy smoker look about her, with scraggy blonde hair, darker skinned (Roma?) child dressed in grubby pajamas.

It eventually became clear that this pair didn’t know each other. At all. There was a bit of interaction, such as “I’ve got your dad’s phone number and I’ll call him when we get there” then she started talking about specific directions and instructions and much mention of “When we get to the BBC…”

I’d briefly thought the woman might have been a social worker taking a small, withdrawn child to an emergency placement but the BBC thing… it just seemed really off and I was getting strange vibes.

I’d passed a note on the pretence of it being a phone number, to the woman opposite, which basically asked if she was thinking the same as me (she was).

When scraggy woman went off to the loo, I didn’t dare start chatting to the child for fear of drawing attention, but I texted British Transport Police. I’d hoped they’d meet them off the train but they didn’t, so we followed until they went through some turnstiles and I pointed them out to the female station worker, who told her female colleague, who legged it after them.

BTP eventually messaged me with an image from behind of this woman and child walking along - and said they never caught up with them.

It has haunted me ever since. I’ve kicked myself for not texting BTP sooner and desperately hope that there was an entirely innocent explanation.

Rainbow1612 · 04/10/2024 20:44

I often think about the man we stopped to help a couple of years ago.
He had ran out of fuel on a busy A road. We pulled over just as we saw him walk away from his car.
He was driving a little sports car, the sort you only take out occasionally. My husband helped him to push his car to the verge out of the way.
He was going to try to walk to the nearest garage about 3 miles away. He was an older guy, clearly a bit flustered with the situation and panicking abit.
We offered to take him to the garage and then back his car. When chatting with him it turned out he had not long lost his wife and also his son the year before. The car was his son's and he had cherished it so he liked to take it out every now and then.
He said he had a daughter that he saw fairly regularly and older grandchildren that didn't often have the time to see him.
I often think about him and hope that he's ok. He didn't admit it, but it was clear he was a bit lonely.
He was so grateful to us that day, tried to give us money but we refused.
It's not difficult to be kind is it. I like to think if that was my Dad, someone would do the same thing.

MissJoGrant · 04/10/2024 20:46

The woman in the white dress.

StarryNymph · 04/10/2024 23:48

I was on a flight back from Barcelona when I was around 28. I sat next to this man who I got chatting to, and we didn’t stop talking for the entire journey. It was just really natural and easy making conversation.

I felt a really strong attraction to him and I felt that he did too. Or maybe I just imagined it? Felt like chemistry, though. I was in a relationship at the time but I knew it was coming to an end. He mentioned a girlfriend too.

When our flight arrived in London, I felt this real panic that I was never going to see him again. I was so close to asking for his number but I didn’t. Then when we had gone our separate ways, I thought ‘find him, what have you got to lose?’ and so I looked for him in the crowded airport but it was too late.

I felt really bad about it for days, like I’d met someone who could have been the one but I’d allowed it to slip between my fingers. I wondered if he thought that too… or maybe he didn’t give me a second thought?

I didn’t even know his name. I knew he was a doctor but I didn’t know which hospital he worked in.

I know it sounds really silly but I still think about him now, and that feeling of very strong connection. It’s a rare thing.

I’m married with kids, and of course I’d never mention it! My secret…

LunaNorth · 04/10/2024 23:55

A man I met on a writing course wordlessly gave me his dessert plate at dinner because I didn’t have one, and asked for another for himself.

With that simple gesture, he showed me everything that was missing from my marriage, and opened my eyes to the fact that I really needed to end it. It took me another five years, but I got out.

I’m now happily married to my second husband, but Dave, if you’re out there, cheers. You changed my life.

Manchesterbythesea · 05/10/2024 00:01

A toddler who was rushed into A&E while I was there with my daughter. The little boy had been hit by a car and was in a bad way. His family were hysterical and all shouting and arguing, blaming each other. It was so upsetting. I often think about him and did he even pull through.

MsInterpret · 05/10/2024 00:10

stonkytonk11 · 04/10/2024 20:00

I was travelling alone on a flight back from New York about 18 years ago and got talking to the man next to me (he was older than me and it was just interesting chat, not flirting or anything!) he was a politician from Ghana and was hoping to be the next president of the country. Can't remember much of it now but he had fascinating stories

Also got talking to someone on a flight but TO New York. Young man, in a band. Not particularly attracted to but had a total earthy connection. Somtimes curious to know what might have been if hadn't been on way to see now DH, happily together for 20+yrs

SmallestMan · 05/10/2024 00:59

A therapist who changed my life in one visit. I was in New York and looked up a random therapist via the yellow pages in my hotel room. Rang and made an appointment. Walked there, she was about 30 years old. She basically helped me see something differently that changed everything for me in that one session. Bizarrely she gave me belief in myself I didn’t know possible. I never went back and often think about how she genuinely changed my life. Have no idea of her name or if she ever gave thought to that session again.

Choosingbetweenthousandsofmediocresandwiches · 05/10/2024 01:16

Love these

StrongFemaleCharacter · 05/10/2024 01:34

In my younger years I went to an "old boys" network event, invited by my boss. It was full of white 60yo+ men. My boss was chatting to one man, he had a guy with him who was my age. We ended up chatting together for the rest of the night because we were the only people there our age, at least 30 years younger than the rest and it turned out we had a lot in common and had a really good laugh together. I had a great night and when it ended we sat outside on a bench chatting for another couple of hours. One thing we talked about was that he wanted to go to Australia to travel and I talked to him about my flatmate who had been and what an amazing time she had had. A couple of months later I was in a pub and he was there, I went over to say hi and he told me it was his leaving drinks, he'd quit his job and was going to Australia. He said our conversation about my flatmate had given him the incentive. Then he said "Come with me". I actually really fancied him and was so tempted to throw my life in the air but I'm terrified of flying so said no. But I wish I had said yes. I wonder where he is now, and I wonder what my life would have been like if I had said yes.

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