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Housework routine, v lazy

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Qwerty21 · 08/06/2024 10:02

Does anyone have any good tips or recommendations of apps/websites for keeping on top of the housework? I'm pretty lazy and I tend to think oh well I'll do it tomorrow then I don't do it tomorrow. I think some sort of routine will help. But I don't have the time or effort to do lots every day.

fwiw I don't live in a tip! But it certainly could be tidier

OP posts:
crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:16

MonsteraMama · 08/06/2024 14:35

Or, wild idea, take a deep breath : she's one of the many, many adults with undiagnosed ADHD who has spent their whole life being told they're lazy and they should just "crack on with it" by people who don't have ADHD and think it's that easy for those of us who do.

good grief

why can’t we just sometimes take an OP at face value when she says she’s lazy about housework rather than having to tailor responses on the basis that she could be ND

Youdontevengohere · 08/06/2024 15:18

My advice was given on the basis that I also struggle with housework because im lazy, and the best thing for me is to crack on with it instead of procrastinating by listening to podcasts about cleaning and writing routines. I don’t have ADHD, I’m just lazy and hate housework.

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:19

Youdontevengohere · 08/06/2024 15:18

My advice was given on the basis that I also struggle with housework because im lazy, and the best thing for me is to crack on with it instead of procrastinating by listening to podcasts about cleaning and writing routines. I don’t have ADHD, I’m just lazy and hate housework.

yup
this

but went down like a sack a shit with the OP when i suggested this

HideTheCroissants · 08/06/2024 15:25

I’m another fan of TOMM. My DH is on board with it as well. Our home is always “visitor ready” now with what feels like little effort.

Qwerty21 · 08/06/2024 15:35

Thanks all. I will look into the recommendations given here. Really appreciate it.

I was snappy at Cray this morning as I honestly don't see how someone can truly think it helpful to say just get on with cleaning to someone asking for suggestions on routines for keeping on top of the housework. If I'd posted asking for suggestions on methods and routines for studying or exercising would you have said just get on and study, or just get on and exercise?

OP posts:
Youdontevengohere · 08/06/2024 15:39

Qwerty21 · 08/06/2024 15:35

Thanks all. I will look into the recommendations given here. Really appreciate it.

I was snappy at Cray this morning as I honestly don't see how someone can truly think it helpful to say just get on with cleaning to someone asking for suggestions on routines for keeping on top of the housework. If I'd posted asking for suggestions on methods and routines for studying or exercising would you have said just get on and study, or just get on and exercise?

Well… yes. Because sometimes just getting on and doing it is the best solution, particularly if, as you acknowledge yourself, you are lazy. When I can’t bring myself to exercise I tell myself I’ll just put my running gear on and that I don’t actually have to go. Turns out that getting started is the hardest part, and once the gear is on I’m ready to go. The same with cleaning. Just start, and tell yourself you only have to do 10 mins. Chances are you’ll find yourself motivated by the initial efforts. It works for me, as another self confessed lazy person who hates housework.

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:40

Qwerty21 · 08/06/2024 15:35

Thanks all. I will look into the recommendations given here. Really appreciate it.

I was snappy at Cray this morning as I honestly don't see how someone can truly think it helpful to say just get on with cleaning to someone asking for suggestions on routines for keeping on top of the housework. If I'd posted asking for suggestions on methods and routines for studying or exercising would you have said just get on and study, or just get on and exercise?

so have you done anything today towards the tidy up?

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:41

i did offer you a solution
get off mumsnet
and aim to have one room tidy by end of day

Qwerty21 · 08/06/2024 15:50

You keep spectacularly missing the point @crayfishyum . I wasn't asking for motivation to do it. I was asking for suggestions on routines for keeping on top of it. And for the record I replied to you, and didn't come back to Mumsnet til I've replied again. I also didn't say my rooms aren't tidy right now.

OP posts:
crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:52

Qwerty21 · 08/06/2024 15:50

You keep spectacularly missing the point @crayfishyum . I wasn't asking for motivation to do it. I was asking for suggestions on routines for keeping on top of it. And for the record I replied to you, and didn't come back to Mumsnet til I've replied again. I also didn't say my rooms aren't tidy right now.

odd that so many agreed with me

i don’t give a hoot about your motivation

getting off mumsnet - practical
Tidying one room at a time and giving yourself sufficient time to do so - practical

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:52

think some sort of routine will help

what i suggested is a routine
get off mumsnet
one room at a time

qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 08/06/2024 15:53

Qwerty21 · 08/06/2024 15:35

Thanks all. I will look into the recommendations given here. Really appreciate it.

I was snappy at Cray this morning as I honestly don't see how someone can truly think it helpful to say just get on with cleaning to someone asking for suggestions on routines for keeping on top of the housework. If I'd posted asking for suggestions on methods and routines for studying or exercising would you have said just get on and study, or just get on and exercise?

I agree, those type of responses are shitty.

You just have to zone them out and wait for the more insightful people to arrive!

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:54

qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 08/06/2024 15:53

I agree, those type of responses are shitty.

You just have to zone them out and wait for the more insightful people to arrive!

with more podcast suggestions?

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:55

Qwerty21 · 08/06/2024 15:50

You keep spectacularly missing the point @crayfishyum . I wasn't asking for motivation to do it. I was asking for suggestions on routines for keeping on top of it. And for the record I replied to you, and didn't come back to Mumsnet til I've replied again. I also didn't say my rooms aren't tidy right now.

i got the impression from But it certainly could be tidier meant it wasn’t tidy… now.

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:55

qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 08/06/2024 15:53

I agree, those type of responses are shitty.

You just have to zone them out and wait for the more insightful people to arrive!

you and the Op have very similar user names 😆 🧦

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:56

qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 08/06/2024 15:53

I agree, those type of responses are shitty.

You just have to zone them out and wait for the more insightful people to arrive!

so @Qwerty21 is this your advice to yourself?

GalacticalFarce · 08/06/2024 16:38

I have a timetable so I know what I'm doing each day.
I based it on the the fly lady's basic weekly schedule and adapted to my working and non working days.

GalacticalFarce · 08/06/2024 16:38

A link might be helpful

www.flylady.net/d/getting-started/flying-lessons/routines/#weekly-plan

toomanyjobsforonewoman · 08/06/2024 17:20

The organised mum method has an amazing app - and I say that as a disabled person. It's really helpful and motivational

qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 08/06/2024 18:44

crayfishyum · 08/06/2024 15:55

you and the Op have very similar user names 😆 🧦

Yes, I noticed this coincidence myself.

I am no sock puppet.

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 08/06/2024 19:31

The only thing that helps me is setting myself a timer.

Recently I've been doing an initial 30min timer to tidy, the another 30 mins timer to clean.

HideTheCroissants · 08/06/2024 21:02

toomanyjobsforonewoman · 08/06/2024 17:20

The organised mum method has an amazing app - and I say that as a disabled person. It's really helpful and motivational

And it’s not just a “podcast” @crayfishyum

DiscoBeat · 08/06/2024 21:08

I made a timetable over 7 days so that the whole house is covered every week, 3 rooms a day which breaks it down. Towels washed on Tuesdays and Fridays, bedding on Mondays and Thursdays. It's much easier to keep on top of everything that way. I prefer to do my own timetable rather than TOMM so that it fits in with my schedule.

nupnup · 08/06/2024 21:24

I don't see how an app is going to make the blindest bit of difference in cleaning your house?

If it's an app to make a list, just do it on your notes on your phone?

JammyJellyfish · 09/06/2024 08:24

Lists - create a list of the main cleaning jobs
set a time to do them e.g 5-6pm
use a timer and you only stop once the timer goes off