Any trips? Anyone experienced this? I know it depends on the cirumstances.
never known my dad despite that he lived locally, we have mutual contacts and he had other children. I think him and my mum were young and couldn’t put their differences aside for the sake of their baby - me. I think my mum made it hard for him yet he should have fought surely 🤷♀️
anyway, I have had some email contact recently and meeting in person was mentioned. I’m not sure I’m ready yet.
i have told my mum about this so she’s in the loop. We have a strained relationship but I needed to tell her.
do I ask him why he didn’t see me or let the past be the past?
do I go alone or with someone else?
I do want to do it but I don’t feel ready or prepared yet!
I a not after some close relationship with him or anything. If anything I want answers and some form of closure and maybe just to be civil with him. Life is too short!