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Can dd get into trouble?

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Sameturd · 07/06/2024 10:55

A few weeks or so back dd ex hurt her police were called. He's out in bail . No contact allowed.

Him and dd have a few mutual friends. A friend rang DD and said I heard what happend. Dd then told this person her side of the event what had happend etc . That friend the rang dd ex back and had a go at him for lying and for what he's done to dd. DD said she did not know the mutual friend was going to ring him back.

The mother of dd ex then contacted dd and said please can we keep this situation private it is causing alot if stress and upset and everyone is hurting etc. Dd then told her so your telling me he can go around make up BS and I'm not allowed to defend myself or tell the truth or confinde in someone . Over something your son caused.

I get where DD is coming from but I'm wondering if she could get into trouble for saying stuff. Or if her ex could some how use it when he has to next talk to the police.

Also it happend about a month ago . Police have not chased anything up 4 people rang the police and they have not taken any statements apart from one from dd. There's been no contact at all since.

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Youdontevengohere · 07/06/2024 10:57

I don’t think she can get into trouble for telling her friends the truth about what happened. That would be victim blaming.

Changingplace · 07/06/2024 10:58

If your DD is telling the truth I don’t think she’s done anything wrong, but equally I would avoid purposefully going round talking to everyone about it because it’ll just cause more stress for her.

Sameturd · 07/06/2024 11:14

Thank you . I was not sure. I get a bit paranoid.

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