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Housekeeping money from adult children - what does it cover?

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Anotherloverholeinyohead · 02/06/2024 07:37

Curious to know what arrangements other people have.

My 20 year old son gives me £150 per month. He does not drive yet (taking lessons though) so £100 of that is to cover the fuel costs of me driving him to work. The other £50 is a token contribution to the household. He is saving for a car/insurance and is building up work tools which he needs to pay for.

Talking to his friend yesterday - he pays £100 housekeeping money plus buys all his own food/toiletries/washing powder etc.

I don't want to profit from my adult child living at home and if I thought he was taking the mick with the situation I would review it but, just curious as to other peoples set up

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KnickerlessParsons · 02/06/2024 12:01

It doesn't matter what their "keep" covers or doesn't cover. They need to contribute to the cost of having a roof over their head for starters. DDs both paid £50 pw which then went up to £70pw due to COL.

They eat some meals with us, sometimes they cook their own. They use the washing machine - sometimes I do their washing in with ours, sometimes I don't.

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