I have a 5 week old baby, his dad and I separated during the pregnancy (he cheated) and he has been visiting him at my house. He said he wanted to be able to take baby by himself for a little bit instead of having to be at my house (we don't get along so this is understandable). So I agreed for him to take him for an hour. But now that that is happening I feel so on edge and uncomfortable and anxious. Baby is breastfed (I pumped some for their outing) and because of how difficult feeding has been, he and I haven't really left the house since he arrived. But he's taken him to the restaurant where he works so baby can meet everyone he works with and it just makes me feel so uncomfortable. The thought of germs and random people holding him is making me worried, but it's his time with his baby so I guess he can take him where he wants to. Have I done the right thing letting him take him so soon? Please don't bash, I have a lot of new mum anxiety.