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Ex judges so much .

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Toejam24 · 27/05/2024 15:13

Ex judged /slagged of my teen son for being gay.

Judged teen son for his mental health issues/his struggles.

Judged/slagged my DD for her mental heath issues and her DV situation.

Judged slagged GS over his special needs.

Won't expect that our son has autism and learning difficulties.

His GS was being bullied at school. Ex said what's he expect with long hair like a girl. His gs was getting in trouble at school. And he ended up blurting out that he thinks he's gay he hates himself amd wants to die . This was said at school sivhas triggered a CAMHS referral . Apprently ex has had a chat with him and he's ok now.

In the past he's told me he hates my child. He's also told me he hates his GS.

Obviously thank fuck he's an ex . But im wondering is he a really nasty person ? Is it that he just does not understand. Could he have some type of special needs himself.

Everyone in his family thinks the sun shines out of his arse . He has a lovely heart will do anything for anyone

Would he effect our children we have together. They are I primary school one has autism and learning difficulties.

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Toejam24 · 27/05/2024 17:39

OriginalUsername2 · 27/05/2024 17:31

I feel for you, he sounds like my ex!

My children grew up and we collectively told him we were done with him.

In hindsight we could have done it years earlier. He never had the balls to take it to court.

Edited

Yeah it's hard. Taking it to court would be very hard it's proving things. Then there's the be accused of allinating a parent etc.

Our situation may end up similar to yours. The kids might naturally distance from him as they get older or may tolerate him. Who knows .

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mossylog · 27/05/2024 17:41

I never really understood why some people say long hair is gay, most gay men I know don't have long hair and conversely most long haired men I know are straight. He just meana "effeminate" right? Not manly enough. It's nonsense.

Your ex has all this shame that he's displacing onto the kids.

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