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URGENT - DOG ATTACKED PARTNER **Please read OP's latest updates** [edited by MNHQ]

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FlangeBoil · 22/05/2024 10:37

Hi all, my 6yo JRT has attacked my partner twice this morning. He has recently developed some territorial aggression, and we have to 'coax' him away from his bed each morning. This morning was as normal, but he wouldn't come so we just left him. My partner went to get milk, about 2m away from him, and the dog lunged and has bitten his hand fairly badly. We managed to lock him away whilst we sorted things, and have since boarded a section of the kitchen away so he can get outside but also can't get to us.
Anytime we enter the kitchen he viciously barks. I have a 4yo at home, so this isn't something I can risk.
He has since bitten my partner again when we went to open the back door for him (by leaning over the barrier we've created) and it's really bad - blood everywhere and he is now in a&e.
I cannnot get near the dog. How do I get him to a point where I can get him checked out - or as I'm probably denying to myself, put to sleep..?
I'm in absolute bits - I just need advice please urgently.

To note - I can't get a vet to come to him, I have already called around

  • [Note from MNHQ: We've already edited the title to ask people to read the OP's updates before responding (just click on the See All tab). As that doesn't seem to have worked, we feel the need to explain here in the opening post that the OP's dog has been put to sleep by now as he was found to be suffering from a brain tumour. The OP is obviously in pieces about this so please be sensitive when responding.]
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KreedKafer · 24/05/2024 13:01

FlangeBoil · 23/05/2024 18:25

Thank you all. I keep checking back and reading all of the amazing responses.

It's going to take some getting used to. I've just put DD to bed, donut usually joins us for stories. She isn't aware yet - I've told her he is on a doggy only holiday with all of his dog friends. She's excited for him. It breaks my heart but her ignorance is bliss.

I keep expecting to see him around the house. To trip over him when I'm cooking, cause he has to be under my feet at all times! Or to go for a wee and see his little head nudge the door open. He was a character. I adore him. We all do, and things just wont be the same without him.

@FlangeBoil Oh, you poor love. I'm so sorry. What an awful experience for you all. You must be heartbroken. So sad for your boy to develop a tumour at a relatively young age, but at least you know it was the tumour, not Donut himself, that was the source of the aggression/fear.

I'm sure he loved you all just as much as you loved him. He's at peace now, and you have done exactly the right thing for him xxx

theemmadilemma · 24/05/2024 16:33

OP I'm so sorry, I lost my boy in October and it still hurts.

You 100% did the right thing by him. I'm glad you had the reassurance that sadly there was little to be done, and that the aggression was not his fault and only caused by the illness.

Pippetypoppity · 24/05/2024 17:47

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Daisypod · 24/05/2024 17:49

Are you serious @Pippetypoppity! Read the full thread fgs

IngridPrice · 24/05/2024 17:57

Personally I’d change my vet to be fair with a response like that 🙄!

Pippetypoppity · 24/05/2024 18:07

Oh Gawd, stupid me! I didn’t read the follow up posts I’m very sorry.

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 24/05/2024 18:20

IngridPrice · 24/05/2024 17:57

Personally I’d change my vet to be fair with a response like that 🙄!

Did you read the thread? Or at least ops posts and update???

NZBride · 24/05/2024 18:47

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Soberinthecity · 24/05/2024 18:56

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 24/05/2024 18:20

Did you read the thread? Or at least ops posts and update???

Where is the update??

AwfulMIL · 24/05/2024 18:58

So sorry OP. It was the only course of action with that diagnosis. Also explains his recent change. Best wishes to you all.

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 24/05/2024 19:14

Soberinthecity · 24/05/2024 18:56

Where is the update??

Click on the OPs ‘see all’ posts and you will see it 🤞

thedendrochronologist · 24/05/2024 19:22

So sorry op. Sending you all Flowers

Soberinthecity · 24/05/2024 19:25

I'm late to this thread, but I read most of it...what a tragic thing you've been through, I'm so sorry. I don't have any words and anyway none would take away the pain you're feeling now. Just sending virtual hugs...dogs are a part of our families, not just pets. Lots of love to you ♥️

Soberinthecity · 24/05/2024 19:26

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 24/05/2024 19:14

Click on the OPs ‘see all’ posts and you will see it 🤞

Thank you 🙏 new here

XenoBitch · 24/05/2024 19:31

Oh gosh, what an awful thing to happen.
You did the right thing, and I am glad your poor little lad was seen by a vet and not just PTS on the basis of his behaviour.
He looked like he was the best boy (and all dogs are).
Take care of yourself, and allow yourself to grieve.
RIP Donut Flowers

rainbowunicorn · 24/05/2024 19:41

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Are you actually bloody serious? Read the OP posts or even a couple of the posts towards the end of the thread.

laraitopbanana · 24/05/2024 19:48

rumred · 22/05/2024 10:40

Can you ring a local dog rescue for advice /support? The dog's clearly distressed for some reason, if this is out of the blue.

I am so sorry for your loss op.

gentle hug 🌺

Nextdoor55 · 24/05/2024 19:48

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poopybumhole · 24/05/2024 19:52

Just catching up now. So so sorry for the loss of your lovely Donut.
Losing your best friend so suddenly must be a shock. I'm glad he isn't suffering anymore, poor wee lad.
Hugs OP x

albertoross · 24/05/2024 19:52

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READ THE OPS UPDATES

Nextdoor55 · 24/05/2024 19:53

So sorry for your loss, he must have been in such pain and torment, RIP baby boy

ArmchairPhycologist · 24/05/2024 19:55

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She did.

You clearly haven't read op's posts.

Why do people feel the need to chime in after umpteen pages without at least checking op's posts first?

XenoBitch · 24/05/2024 19:59

ArmchairPhycologist · 24/05/2024 19:55

She did.

You clearly haven't read op's posts.

Why do people feel the need to chime in after umpteen pages without at least checking op's posts first?

It literally says to read the updates in the thread title. I don't know why people are ignoring that.

ShiftySandDune · 24/05/2024 20:06

Just read the thread. I’m so sorry OP. You did what was best for your pup - he couldn’t help having the tumour and I hope it brings you some relief to know that his behaviour was beyond his control. Wishing you all the best.

ExpatAl · 24/05/2024 20:10

I hope your partner is ok.
I’m very sorry your dog had a tumour. It hurts to say goodbye I know but remember what a good life you gave him.