I want to reduce my working hours to 4 days, either 0.8 or 0.9 after maternity leave.
We could potentially stretch to dropping to 0.7 over 3 days but it would mean much harder or impossible to move to a bigger house (current is 3 bed semi, with 3rd room being tiny and housing our clothes and boiler), and it would make the next maternity leave if we had a second child very tight financially. It would essentially make circumstances hard should we choose to grow our family again.
I’ve had friends say I’m thinking too far, and that I could change jobs, get promoted or anything could change. This is also true.
Another friend got round it by getting pregnant again on her first maternity leave so she only did 6 months at full time before going back off on maternity.
My mum has said I should go back full time initially even if it’s just for a couple of months and push through it as long as I can for the extra wage.
What would you do?