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Small things that make you cry

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ODFOx · 14/05/2024 20:03

Please help me feel less pathetic. Has anything in your life become important enough that their loss makes you weep even though to anyone else they are entirely trivial?

Mine: when I was ten I went to Guide camp and the patrol I was in won the patrol prize. Each of us was given a wooden spatula with a silver star cut from a milk bottle top stuck on with a loop of cellotape and 'Top Patrol' written on in felt tip. A couple of the older cooler girls didn't want their prize so I ended up with three. They went with me, unused, to Uni and have been used, on and off, since then. Tonight my adult son broke the last one while making dinner.

I had to go to the loo for a little cry. I know that it is ridiculous. You can buy an almost identical spatula even now for probably not much more than a pound, but that one had been with me for over 45 years from my first Guide camp.

Please tell me I'm not the only one with a special attachment to something nonsensical!

OP posts:
ODFOx · 14/05/2024 22:49

Just me then. I truly am pathetic. Gah!

OP posts:
Errolwasahero · 14/05/2024 22:57

Haha op I’m sure it’s not just you! I was trying to think of something but can only come up with a song that always makes me cry, Blackbird by Alter Bridge. I can cry easily if I’m generally upset, about random things though. And I have pods of stuff I’m sentimental over so I imagine if they got broken I would feel very sad!

TheChosenTwo · 14/05/2024 23:02

Ahh that’s kind of sweet and sad at the same time Op!
I’m not really a crier but I have a couple of very sentimental things in the house that I’d feel sad about if they were broken (which is why they live in a cupboard far away from the clumsy oafs I share my house with 😂).
Oh, my dd bought me back a beautiful wine bottle stop thing with a piece of San Marino glass in from her budget trip to Venice. She’d really scrimped but had a wonderful time and I was so touched she saw it and brought it back for us in her Ryan air luggage allowance that was basically the size of a pencil case!! Within about 3 days it was broken because it was put in the cutlery draw and it had bashed about and broken against something else. It’s got about a quarter of the pretty glass missing. I was less sad about the thing being damaged and more so because it was so kind of her to have spent her money on it for us only for it to be damaged. So I do get it.

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