Im 6 months pregnant. DH and I used to have a great sex life. All it took was a bit of neck kissing for him and he was in the mood. Before i fell pregnant there were a few times where he coudlnt keep his erection, this happened around the same time he lost and job and was stressed. Once he found another job it was back to normal.
Around the same time I fell pregnant his mum passed away suddenly and we are hardly intimate at all. We were having sex once but it was uncomfrotable for me with the baby and he said he gets worried in case the baby can feel anything (even though i have explained baby cant!)
Whenever i try to kiss him, neck mouth anything he isnt interested. He has been going to the pub alot and does come back smelling of booze and fags and says he doesnt want to kiss me because he doesnt want the fag residue to go to the baby. Hes very invested in having a child, its our first and I know he must be stressed again with everything, but I am dying for a shag!!
How do i get him back in the mood? I have been complaining a lot too which I know isnt helping but i really need a stress relief. Everytime we go for a scan or i have a massage the person says to me i am so tense and need to relax, but we havet had sex in months, and there's only so much porn that can satisfy me for 5 mins.