Gambling addiction

[Lovinglife57]

I have to look after my partners money as he’s a gambling addict it pisses me off as he will say can you transfer me some money for this and that when I know what it’s for sometimes not all the time …I’m fed up with confusing his money with mine plus when I question him on is he gambling we get into a massive argument with him saying he doesn’t have to explain where his money goes …we don’t live together because of this and other reasons but I’m sick of looking after his money then getting shit when I question it

You don't live together and you aren't married? If there's no kids involved I would cut and run and leave him to it!

Leave him. Honestly. It will onlg het worse and he will drag you and your finances down with him. He will not change, no matter what you say or do or suggest. He will leech all your money from you, from your priperty or savings. He will lie and shout and use you up until you have nothing left.so please please leave now.

I would be off like a shot! You're having to treat him like a child, living on eggshells in case he gamble his money and then he's rude to you on top of it. You don't live with him and you don't owe him anything.

Been together 15 years he has got better but I would never live with him again ….do I really want that for my future not really …I think it’s time I want the whole package ….