Cheer me up, got proper pissed when out with work last night…

[BigDahliaFan]

Broke my rule of not being the most pissed person, don’t think I did anything too bad but was v drunk and am now having the piss taken out of me by husband who picked me up from pub last night. He said I was stood in the kitchen last night like a drunk teenager pretending to be sober. I’m 55.

im not normally like this. And also missed the northern lights.

oh fuck.

hugged my rather surprised looking boss goodbye…that’s not something I do…

Cher me up with tales of you office drunk badness.

hugged my rather surprised looking boss goodbye…that’s not something I do…

that’s not good

if she was female and you were male, i’d be very worried if i was you

Oh give over

Called my area manager a prick once after having too many drinks.
Saw him a few weeks later and he called me one back.
Don't think too much of what you've done, sure it'll be forgotten about by Monday.

Oh give over.

Your boss will know what you're ordinarily like and will likely just laugh it off. Just go into work as normal on Monday and prepare to be self-deprecating. Acknowledge you were battered if anyone says anything to you. If not, just get on with it. What's your relationship with your colleagues like usually?

Don't lose the weekend to The Dread.

Ha! @Blahdymcblahdyface Jinx! Cross post.

I am an arse

yep!

You weren't that bad if a hug was the worst thing you did! It's the after effects of booze making you think you were worse than you were. Hangxiety I think it's called.
Not me but a work colleague got frog marched out of a pub on a work night out for getting on stage with the band that were playing. She was screaming in the street and was spoken to by a passing police officer., she was next level mortified.
I'm sure you weren't the only person who had too much to drink. Get some rest today!

Ffs typical mumsnet in the first reply 🤣

AIBU to be grossed out by sleazy male colleague drunkenly hugging me last night

I reckon it would be near on 100% No you are NOT being unreasonable and most of the posters would be suggesting to go to HR

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Head Tilt

I would not worry.
A hug, rather than being abusive or flying off the walls.
If anything is said or you feel the need to your boss, then do so at the time.
Go enjoy your remaining weekend.

Wtf?? You're making up your own scenario here

I wouldn’t worry too much as I assume everyone else had had a few drinks too..Hugging someone isn’t the worst drunken behaviour in the world!

HR ??? 😂😂😂 Don’t be so bloody ridiculous

A drunk hug is fine, you just have the fear. If you licked his neck while you did it, panic monger PP might have a point.

Are you unaware of the massive disparity in sexually aggressive behaviour between men and women?

Doesn't sound like you embarrassed yourself badly, you've just got Hangxiety! Plus if you're awake at this time you can't have been that drunk 😊

We don't know that the op was acting in a sleazy way, nor if she has a reputation for that kind of behaviour.

If the op was all over the boss, letching in them, holding in longer than a quick hug, etc then yes - it would be a concern. A quick hug when drunk, out of character but nothing sinister - something most people would laugh off.

well she was hardly likely to tell us that! 😆

I was at home and checked about six times for any sign of the northern lights - but zilch showing in my night sky - so you mightn't have missed anything.

I cant think of a worse rule to live by than "not being the drunkest person there"