What matters is engaged parents. And poor kids rarely have engaged parents, while rich parents nearly always have.
Yes, what matters is engaged parents. The reason why working class immigrant children often do better educationally than working class white British children is for this very reason. Many of the immigrant families were well educated back in their home countries so they are more engaged despite having similar financial issues . Or they come from countries which value education and respect teachers more. Plus they may be more hungry for success having successfully emigrated to a “richer” nation.
Have you seen the difference in educational attainment between middle class kids in state schools and poorer kids in state schools??
It’s very obvious their home life matters, and to be fair it’s not always their parents fault they’re not engaged eg. If they have money and housing worries, literacy difficulties etc but the fact is - it has a MASSIVE impact and you’re on cloud cuckoo land if you think this isn’t the case.
Here’s an example : A childhood friend of mine from an uneducated working class background was telling me about how her oldest kid was struggling with a certain GCSE subject and had lost confidence etc.
If that was my (poor, single but educated and ambitious ) mum, she would’ve used her last pennies to get me some sort of tutoring help.
My friend, in contrast, who has more spare money than my mum ever did ( but prefers to spend it on the latest iPhones for all of her kids ) just kept reassuring her child that exams didn’t matter and she was fine without any of that.
I appreciate the reassurance it’s ok to fail and there’s more to life than exams,etc but it’s a shame she didn’t also take the opportunity to help build her child’s confidence and potential through boosting her skills.
I did advise her to look into tutoring but she just waved my suggestions off and said she herself had barely any qualifications.
She spends more time challenging teachers who she believes are being unfair to her teens more than anything else. She doesn’t value education and her children don’t either and lack ambition and direction.
Had her children been raised in another more educated family their educational attainment would’ve likely been markedly different.