Zara shop

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Hi, my partner has used card in Zara in IBIZA. It doesn’t state which one, if he had shopped in the Zara man store would it be showing as Zara man or just Zara on my statement? It just says Zara Ibiza Es. He’s never shopped with you before so I’m so confused. I don’t know if he’s shopped in the females or males and I feel physically sick. Could you please help me? It’s definitely not morning for me I’m not a Zara shopper! X

Stop stalking your partner.

Maybe hes bought you something. There isn't a way to work out which store he was in

Why do you feel physically sick op? Zara just shows as Zara. It doesn’t say if it’s men’s or women’s as far as I am aware.

I think there are bigger issues to address other than what's been bought in Zara😬

The bigger issues is that he just left to go Ibiza and not told me until the day we went, that’s why I’m feeling insecure. There’s two separate stores just Zara and then Zara man in Ibiza that’s why I was asking, thought we was all here to support others and not people down.

Aren’t you a delight

Any dept of Zara is just Zara
'Zara home' doesn't show as that, just Zara.

As others have said it seems there's other issues at play here.

On the Zara though seems like he's probably just got himself some holiday clothes in there. Loads of men shop in Zara

Nobody is putting you down, they’re being honest. Stalking your partner’s bank account and feeling physically sick over a trip to Zara is a very extreme reaction. There are deeper issues at play here

It's just Zara, regardless of the dept.

Also, if you don't use the quote feature, no one can see who you're replying to.

Thank you

Such a delight you are, clearly I’m aware there are issues otherwise I wouldn’t be in this position. Just needed a simple answer about whether it was or not, if you can’t answer the question why reply instead of turning into something else.

Its going to show as just Zara no matter which one it is.

It probably clear to you already but your relationship has bigger and more fundamental issues than where your "partner"* is shopping. Feeling physically sick from a bank charge isnt normal.

'* you will note I put partner in inverted commas as actual partners dont just up and fuck off on a jolly without telling their partner.

If you’re going to go around attacking people for simply giving you the truth and answers that you wanted then I’m not why you’ve posted. I have not said anything even mildly unpleasant or rude - what a delight you are!

Regardless of where he is shopping no partner worth the title is going to go on holiday without telling you first.

Gosh, do you know when he's due home?

He’s got taste.

No he said a week but due to us disagreeing he’s not speaking to me, actually can’t believe it

I posted to ask a question about a shop which you replied with no context too, wouldn’t exactly call what you replied advice either. As I said if you wasn’t sure on the answer don’t reply, you don’t need to bring in other factors. I’d be concerned if you think what I said is an attack, we could both pull that card hun

Thanks chick, I totally agree! However still felt like I needed to know whether it does or not, feel like it’s another thing to add to the list unfortunately

I would spend my time he's away to pack up his things (or yours if it's his place) ready to move out. This can't be a one off, just going on holiday randomly without telling you. It's not normal.

You may want to start using proper English and stop using demeaning terms, hun.

Can’t all be perfect can we doll

If it's got to this stage where he ups and leaves to go on holiday and only tells you the day before and you are then anxious about an expenditure he has made from a store, then sadly your relationship is over.

Dead. Over. Finished.