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Is this a reason to break up with my partner of 2years ?

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chychyete · 25/04/2024 18:31

Hi everyone need a little advise because I don't have much friends.

Me and my boyfriend has been dating for 2 years now I have a son that's not his at the moment he's going through financial troubles and I try to help as much as I can because I love him and he's done the same for me when I've been in my own situations I make more than him when he works but that doesn't bother me

We live in different cities atm but he's become so different so distant not the same person I fell in love with he's depressed when he doesn't have money and doesn't even talk to me or check up on his step son but when he has money he wants to speak and engage I get on and off feelings with him even when we talk on the phone the slightest thing I'll say will switch him off half of the time we are on the phone im speaking to myself because he's not engaging in no conversation

I totally understand that when someone is going through financial troubles it can really bring them down but I never knew this would also have an affect on me I feel lonely I wait up all day to speak to him and when we do it's like i wish I never called him because he just makes me cry he's soo different and it hurts

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TeaKitten · 25/04/2024 18:34

It’s a good reason to break up with him, he sounds like a bit of a looser and he isn’t making you happy. I’d end it. However your boyfriend that doesn’t even live with you is not your child’s step father. Your kid doesn’t need various ‘step fathers’ as they grow up, they just need you.

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