I have a 26mo and 6 week old. Since my youngest has been born I am so adamant to get out of the housem
ive been scared that if I sat and recovered my eldest would become lazy and stop enjoying things and outing and just want to sit in
its now getting a bit far as the 4 days he isn’t in nursery (kept his nursery days as we need them when I return to work) I stress about making us do stuff and go out and it was today I sat back feeling so guilty because I realised he doesn’t want to go out walking he just wanted to be with me
I feel like I have to have him out walking each day we’re off (he walks to nursery too as he likes spotting the buses on the way it’s a short walk and nice) or doing an activity m
but at the end of the day he’s 2. just got a new sibling who cries a lot and doesn’t let me pop her down as she’s newborn it’s a lot
ive recognised i need to stop stressing over this and getting really low if all we’ve done in a day is take our kids to see this grandparents and not gone out
but how can i? I don’t know why ive suddenly been so scared to sit in??