I've always had rounded shoulders but one in particular is very much so, almost pointing inward compared to the other. I'm having physio for shoulder issues that the rounded shoulders are making worse. She's told me to try to pull my shoulder blades back and down as often as possible, but I just end up with sore neck muscles when I do, almost in spasm at times, and it always seems to be an effort - it never gets comfortable or feels like they are learning to stay that way on their own! It's been about 3 weeks with the other exercises, but several months of trying this one, and doesn't feel like much is happening. I sleep curled up on my side with shoulders rounded in, and I don't know how to change that. I'm only seeing the physio every 6-8 weeks (NHS) but she always says to just persist anyway.
Has anyone really changed their posture? Do those posture correctors help? I've tried one before but it was hard enough to get on with my shoulder pain anyway (impingement) so didn't use it, but I've read that you end up depending on them rather than changing your habits, so I don't know if it's good. Different pillows? Sleeping differently? Massage?
any other ideas?