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What's the defining song of your youth?

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Appalonia · 19/04/2024 19:44

I was watching TOTP 1995 tonight and Pulp singing Common People was on. It took me back to a very particular time in the nineties and got me thinking about songs that encapsulate a time in your life.

For me it's Ghost Town by The Specials when I was a teenager. Summed up a v bleak time, mass unemployment, race riots, a sense of decline and hopelessness in the early 80s. Also, coming from that part of the UK, it had a particular resonance for me. Obviously there were lots of upbeat songs around at that time too, that I still love, but feels like this song was so much of that time ( tho ironically still feels relevant today...!)

What song do you feel defines your youth?

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hexsnidgett · 19/04/2024 20:38

The Cult She Sells Sanctuary, it was the song to get people up on the dancefloor!

RenoDakota · 19/04/2024 20:39

This Town Ain't Big Enough For Both of Us by Sparks. It was 1974 and I was 11. Their performance on Top of The Pops was mesmerising, and the talk of the school the following day.

And Come on Eileen in 1982. I was 19 and having the going-out time of my life. It was playing everywhere.

Both bring back very happy and special memories.

FraterculaArctica · 19/04/2024 20:40

Losing My Religion.

beachsandseaicecream · 19/04/2024 20:40

BingoMarieHeeler · 19/04/2024 19:46

Mr. Brightside sprung to mind. Not in an it’s my favourite way, but it was always on at every party and no-one can resist screaming along 😄

This is the song for me too. Played at every night at the student union. Me and now dh went to see The Killers.

caringcarer · 19/04/2024 20:41

Neurodiversitydoctor · 19/04/2024 20:33

Don't look back in anger went to visit my boyfriend at another Uni for the weekend and he had just bought the CD the day it was released stayed up all night listening to it.

Oh and smells like team spirit- my A- level year

I was at Uni at the same time and also remember this. It was played everywhere I went.

MalcolmTuckersSwearBox · 19/04/2024 20:41

Smells like teen spirit

FraterculaArctica · 19/04/2024 20:41

And (in a totally different vein!) Football's Coming Home.

Anuggetofpurestgreen · 19/04/2024 20:42

Stone Roses Fool's Gold. It was so different from anything before, being both guitar music and dance music combined and was the start of teenagery life being a bit more cool and more exciting on the snogging/party front.

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 19/04/2024 20:43

fromaytobe · 19/04/2024 20:28

Tiger Feet by Mud. 😂 Not quite sure why, but there we are! It was the first thing that sprang to mind.

Doing the dance at youth club?

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 19/04/2024 20:45

Hi Ho Silver Lining by Jeff Beck. It was played at the end of every disco I went to.

Awrite · 19/04/2024 20:46

Mr Jones by The Counting Crows takes me back to 18, leaving school, heading to uni. Life could go in any direction, every door open, endless possibilities.

What a time.

Heatherbell1978 · 19/04/2024 20:49

Underworld Born Slippy. It still gives me goosebumps.

Legoninjago1 · 19/04/2024 20:50

James Oh Sit Down! Always...Smile

Heatherbell1978 · 19/04/2024 20:51

VincentVanGoth · 19/04/2024 20:27

The day we caught the train by Ocean Colour Scene.

June 1997, just finished doing our GCSEs and we spent the summer days in the park with a boom box and bottles of hooch and K cider.

Yes!! When I hear this song I'm instantly back at a train station in Glasgow on the way to Balloch Park - the infamous Oasis Summer gigs.

RancidOldHag · 19/04/2024 20:54

fromaytobe · 19/04/2024 20:28

Tiger Feet by Mud. 😂 Not quite sure why, but there we are! It was the first thing that sprang to mind.

Love this!!

Also Cum On Feel The Noiz by Slade and Blockbuster by The Sweet

anon2022anon · 19/04/2024 20:56

I also just watched this, and realised that even though I was only 10 when those songs were out, they absolutely must have shaped my musical tastes- I've seen 4 of the acts on that show in concert, and if Oasis ever decide to join back together, they are the absolute top of my list to see.

But the specific songs that were defining for me were a few years later- dirrty, various steps songs, get the party started, crazy in love.

TheGreatestSecretAgentInTheWorld · 19/04/2024 20:59

Don't Leave Me This Way. Just hearing it on the radio makes me feel like I'm having youth and energy poured in through my ears.

(Then I look in the mirror)

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 19/04/2024 21:01

So hard to choose! Maybe Wonderwall

ImWearingPantaloons · 19/04/2024 21:02

Chesney Hawkes The One And Only.

The soundtrack of the end of 6th form, getting bought drinks by teachers and having them ask you to call them by their first name, A level results, Uni and a lifetime of excitement stretching ahead of you.

HauntedBungalow · 19/04/2024 21:14

Pump Up The Jam. My parents kicked me out, I was living in a succession of house-shares/squats bouncing around a massive loose group of people who were all centered around a club I used to go to - it would be called sofa surfing now, back then it was just "go to the club and find somewhere". I went out all the time - looking back I've no idea how as I had no money but I'd never stay in. This song got played everywhere and I thought the singer was really cool - if you remember, there were two videos for it, one with a clubby babe girl, the other with a masc girl, the vocals sounded like a guy, it had the coolest hook, I loved it. At some point during the summer I went to Glastonbury with a bunch of other people. We didn't pay, I think we said we were in a band. We didn't even have a tent or anything, just this fucked up electric blanket that we figured would keep us warm. Then we realised that electric blankets don't work without electricity so we ripped all the wires out. So now we just had a ripped up blanket. But it was the best weekend ever. We had a tape deck in the car and all the way there and back we played compilation tapes and I swear to God Pump Up The Jam was on most of them. Man, I loved that song.

Cheepcheepcheep · 19/04/2024 21:15

BingoMarieHeeler · 19/04/2024 19:46

Mr. Brightside sprung to mind. Not in an it’s my favourite way, but it was always on at every party and no-one can resist screaming along 😄

Same! Born 1989?

familyissues12345 · 19/04/2024 21:18

Ironic - Alanis Morrisette!

LordBummenbachsMagnificentBalls · 19/04/2024 21:21

Quite a few of those already mentioned have youth memories, but a big one for me is Placebo’s Every You and Every Me, we used to play it a lot in my 6th form common room and it brings back that time to me.

Another is Lightening Seeds Pure, which reminds me of my first boyfriend and driving around in his car, I was 13 and he was 19 which is likely unthinkable these days but a very normal 90’s phenomenon

tiredandabitfat · 19/04/2024 21:21

Brian Adam (I think?), Run To You - first radio / tape player aged around 9

Saturday Night by Whigfield - school discos at primary school aged around 11

No one knows by Queens of the Stone Age starting uni age 17

Incubus, the down the river song, age 16, first boyfriend

tiredandabitfat · 19/04/2024 21:23

In addition to the above: Dreams by Gabrielle. Instantly transports me to around 10 years old and hearing it on radio in my mums car on way to my nans