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Is it ok to wear a ring on your "ring finger" if you are not married?

24 replies

OnlyLoveCanBreakYourHeart · 11/04/2024 00:27

I was married for years and even though we divorced years ago I still feel strange without my wedding ring on. I've put on weight recently and a ring that I wore on another finger no longer fits - but it does fit my "ring finger". It's a gold band with cz studs and does actually look a little wedding band-y. I don't really care whether people think I am married or not, and my lovely DP has no problem with me wearing it but I was just wondering what other people think... is your "ring finger" exclusively for wedding bands or is it just another digit to put a pretty ring on?

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Tasha0429 · 11/04/2024 00:29

It's your finger 🤷😂 wear what you want in my opinion, get that ring on haha x

Medschoolmum · 11/04/2024 00:32

No, you don't need anyone else's approval. Wear it if you want to!

I'm married, and haven't worn my ring for almost 25 years.

Just do what you want, it's nobody else's business!

lifeisfunandflowersbloomintherain · 11/04/2024 00:37

Wear the cool ring , it's great to see them back on . people wear rings on the Instagram page far as I know .

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theduchessofspork · 11/04/2024 00:39

It’s fine

Free fingers from the patriarchy!!

OnlyLoveCanBreakYourHeart · 11/04/2024 00:46

theduchessofspork · 11/04/2024 00:39

It’s fine

Free fingers from the patriarchy!!

YES!!!

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LenaLamont · 11/04/2024 00:46

They are your fingers, OP, you can wear whatever you want on them!

Deathbyfluffy · 11/04/2024 00:47

theduchessofspork · 11/04/2024 00:39

It’s fine

Free fingers from the patriarchy!!

Bugger, I better tell my lesbian friends they can’t join in! 😆

Scissor · 11/04/2024 00:49

Just watch Celia Pacquola
And enjoy your finger ring

SheepAndSword · 11/04/2024 00:54

Oh I do that. It occasionally elicits weird responses but I don't care.

Sunnytwobridges · 11/04/2024 01:06

I had a ring that only fit that finger and I wore it all the time - wasn’t married and didn’t care what others thought.

Appleblum · 11/04/2024 01:08

Yes of course it's okay. Enjoy your ring!

CrissCrossAppleSauce · 11/04/2024 01:10

Enjoy your ring!

sometimes I wear my wedding ring. Sometimes I wear my grandmas. Sometimes I wear a plastic gingerbread man ring. Sometimes nothing. Sometimes anything that matches my mood. Enjoy your jewellery

Nat6999 · 11/04/2024 01:30

I wear what I call my respectability ring, it's halfway between an eternity ring & a wedding ring. I started wearing it as ds was at a Catholic primary school (we aren't Catholic) when I got divorced. I carried on wearing it when I got engaged to my late dp.

Nat6999 · 11/04/2024 01:30

I wear what I call my respectability ring, it's halfway between an eternity ring & a wedding ring. I started wearing it as ds was at a Catholic primary school (we aren't Catholic) when I got divorced. I carried on wearing it when I got engaged to my late dp.

Remo22 · 11/04/2024 02:15

I think it goes according to everyone culture
In some cultures rings don't signify anything in another they do

From my personal experience as long as it doesn't look like the traditional wedding ring (either plain gold or diamond ring) I would not consider it as a wedding ring at all

But it is always important to ask if their marital status will be relevant to you in any way

Spencer0220 · 11/04/2024 02:26

My mum is long term separated. She wears a ring on special occasions or when travelling because she hates the feeling of it now being bare.

I don't wear a wedding ring because my husband can't. We both wear a ring on a necklace. If I was travelling, I would wear it for security reasons.

Indeed, as a single female, I never travelled without a ring.

I say go for it.

Mothership4two · 11/04/2024 02:52

It's entirely up to you. It's your finger.

OH and I don't like rings so our wedding rings are in a little box in my dressing table as we never wear them - been married 25 years

Falderalagain · 11/04/2024 07:36

so where would you wear an engagement ring if only wedding rings were allowed on your ring finger?

romdowa · 11/04/2024 07:40

Wear what you want! In some countries the ring finger is on the right hand. It's just a finger!

SevenSeasOfRhye · 11/04/2024 07:48

I think the only reason not to would be if you were single and actively looking for someone new - because anyone who was interested would probably check your ring finger to see if you were available. You've mentioned you have a lovely DP so this doesn't apply to you - it might even be useful if you are ever on the receiving end of unwanted advances.

SisterMichael · 11/04/2024 07:50

I would go for it. You may get some comments, probably from women who are desperate to be engaged/married but aren’t, but I wouldn’t let that stop you.

Toohardtofindaproperusername · 11/04/2024 07:52

The power of culture... of course you can do that...

sugarbyebye · 11/04/2024 07:57

Is this even a thing? I inherited my grandmothers wedding ring when I was 19, I’ve always worn it for safe keeping and it only fits my ring finger. I’m mid forties and no one has ever commented on it. It hasn’t stopped men hitting on me (when I was younger) when travelling for work, and I don’t think my long term DP has even noticed it. It’s just a ring? Wear it as you wish!

Beansandneedles · 11/04/2024 08:05

theduchessofspork · 11/04/2024 00:39

It’s fine

Free fingers from the patriarchy!!

Yaaaas!!! This!

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