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Do you think dating a bad texter in this generation is an issue?

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Lilllypad11 · 06/04/2024 11:44

As per the title really. If someone tells you off the bat I’m just a bad texter how would you feel? Is it believable anymore?

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betterangels · 06/04/2024 12:45

Lilllypad11 · 06/04/2024 12:02

Taking more than a few hours to reply

People have lives and places to be. Wow.

I'd hate that pressure.

24 hours is fine if you're dating. If you're just starting out probably I'd be keener and text sooner. It doesn't take long. Is this about the guy from your other threads?

LunaMay · 06/04/2024 12:53

I'd be a bad texter then. I literally toss my phone on the nearest thing as soon as i walk in the door after work and if people are lucky i might check it once before i go to bed. I hate feeling i have to be constantly glued to it.

I do answer messenger more often cause im usually at the computer anyway.

Like a pp said i also hate ongoing conversations by text. i always stop responding first and then feel a bit guilty lol

RampantIvy · 06/04/2024 12:55

If I were dating nowadays I think I'd just be honest and say upfront "I don't like to text constantly throughout the day, or text 'good morning' or 'chat' over text. I'd like us to see each other regularly and have great in-person conversations but texting is gonna be pretty limited apart from for functional reasons ".

Same here. I can't be bothered with text hockey.

determinedtomakethiswork · 06/04/2024 13:00

Ratfan24 · 06/04/2024 12:19

What generation is this? I don't think the generation Zs are texting these days don't they have some cool app I've never heard of or something.

An app that doesn't involve messaging?

TubeScreamer · 06/04/2024 13:06

I’d think it was a mark in their favour (unless they were bullshitting because they already have a partner). I have a lot of time for people with better things to do than being glued to their phone all day long.

sounds like you might be incompatible with your social media/texting expectations

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