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Tiger4Gorgeous · 05/04/2024 20:18

Hello. I find myself here today thanks to my late husband...he would always tell me to look for this site for advice on how to raise and deal with my 3 young boys which I have from my last marriage. He would be active, reading all the experiences some parents have ,because he really wanted to be more involved with my children... Today it's been 9 days since he passed away. He was all my inspiration...he was perfect...educated, sensitive, loving, caring, sweet,kind,patient, handsome, good looking, energetic, smart...not rich, not so clever.
..he had everything a woman would dream of...and then he got brain cancer and one year later he left us in pieces at only 47 years old... How am I supposed to deal with this now... I don't even want to see or hear from anyone ... all I need is him...where can I find him?why did he go if he promised me FOREVER...he would be the kind of person who would keep all of his promises...so why miss this one?

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madroid · 05/04/2024 20:54

Ah I'm so sorry, you do sound in so much pain. Remember it will get easier.

It is a sad fact of life that we all have to experience loss - it's part of life, we can't avoid it. But the loss is so painful because you have been so fortunate to have someone so loving in your life.

You have had great love, that is very precious, try to remember how lucky you are to have had it.
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LakeTiticaca · 05/04/2024 20:56

So sorry for your loss. Take comfort in remembering much he loved you and your children ❤️

BCBird · 05/04/2024 21:01

I am so sorry for your loss OP. Nothing makes sense. Take one hour at a time. Have you got someone who u can talk to freely? Would imagine you are having to temper your reaction because of your children. Take care if yourself

SocialiteandCoffee · 05/04/2024 22:22

Thinking of you. So sorry for your loss. People around you care

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