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Urgent advice needed partner ex has stopped contact today, what now?

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whatamess100 · 03/04/2024 10:55

Back story, weve had lots of issues with my partners ex and their child over the last 18months, shes a narcissist and a pathological lier, she uses the child all the time. He has their child 5050 ( no court order)
Dp found out last week that she took their daughter to disney, when he dropped her off he asked her mum to let him know next time she takes her out of the country and she flipped. Shouting swearing infont of the child at the door step. Now he is being bombarded with abusive texts acccusing him of all sorts, they are virtually NC anyway and doesnt engage unless its about his daughter pick up ect which usualy its at school but with it being the holidays its from her house. Since she kicked off on monday she is now saying their daughter is unhappy and doesnt want 5050, doesnt like being at our house ect amungst other lies he was ment to collect her today and she has said he can't have her and he will have to go to court to see her. She isnt aware but hes already sorting mediation as a few weeks bk she shouted and swore at him infront of his child so he started it then, he has an assessment monday.

Dp is gutted shes done this and useing her in that way all because he asked her to inform him next time.

What can we do next???

OP posts:
Azerothi · 04/04/2024 08:38

Do you and this current boyfriend live together? Did he move in with you and do you have your own children? You write like you're very young so may not have your own children. This is all very relevant as if the answers to any of those questions is yes, get the hell out of there fast, very fast before you ruin your own and your children's lives. While I am not and will never be with a man with children of his own I'm old and have been round the block a time or two.

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