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Things that you thought everyone did and said?

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PeppermintPie · 30/03/2024 10:58

I had this discussion with two friends. One thought that sleeping with the tv on and a light was something that everyone did until she moved out and learned that it wasn’t the norm.

Another thought that everyone used the terms mardy and nesh until she moved here and people had no idea what she meant.

It’s making me wonder what I say that I think of as normal but is actually specific to my area.

What things did you do and say that you thought were ubiquitous?

OP posts:
WhamBamThankU · 10/06/2024 14:00

Forgot rure. It means to cry

Notdoingtoobadfor52 · 10/06/2024 14:03

katmunchkin · 09/06/2024 23:54

Nesh is a Sheffield word and means 'feels the cold'!

We say nesh and mardy - I'm Nottingham

RainbowZebraWarrior · 10/06/2024 14:14

Lilacdew · 10/06/2024 10:29

I'm from the North East and we say 'chatty' for shoddy/badly made/won't last long. I used 'cheap and chatty' for years with DH to describe whether furniture, clothes, tools or toys were worth buying and he finally confessed he had no idea what I meant!

Also NE England. I've always thought something being chatty probably came from the fact something was Ch eap and T atty = tatty / chatty.

We have loads of old words phrases in our family. My Dad still calls sweets Bullets. He also says 'Ower Yonder' and 'I'll see you Anon' Used to call marbles Liggies.

Plus obviously bairn, pet, hinny etc still used quite a lot by the older folk round my way.

RainbowZebraWarrior · 10/06/2024 14:16

TheRomanticOutlaw · 10/06/2024 12:55

What did I say? 🤣
a particular word for sports footwear is causing problems, it seems!

There was a persistent troll fetishist who started loads of threads about 'this item of clothing' a few months ago. I think MNHQ had to flag the word in order to bring it to their attention.

Alltheyearround · 10/06/2024 14:21

TheRomanticOutlaw · 10/06/2024 00:11

'Cwtch' has reminded me that we all say 'I'll be there now in a minute" or "'I'll do it now in a minute" and nobody outside Wales has a clue what that means. Whereas to us, it's very clear that it means "not straightaway, but very soon" 😂

Is this the same as the Cornish 'Dreckly'?

Alltheyearround · 10/06/2024 14:23

It's looking dark over Bill's Mothers = There's a storm coming over the hill.

Alltheyearround · 10/06/2024 14:31

Mum used to say Blood and stomach pills when she hit her finger with a hammer doing DIY. She always tried not to swear in front of us as kids, so we got other colourful language instead.

I remember an old guy passing us on a walk and we were eating sarnis as we went - can't recall why - and he said 'Eee It comes to something when you've got to eat your snap on the move!'

Our next door neighbour used to end every conversation with 'Right you are then!'

Alltheyearround · 10/06/2024 14:33

Bearsinmotion · 10/06/2024 09:45

My dad is a chemistry teacher. Growing up, if I was asked how many of something there were, and I don’t know the answer but it’s a lot, I thought it was normal to say “n”. As in, “How many kids were in your year at school?” “I don’t know, there were n of them!”

Turns out it’s a specific chemistry term my dad thought would benefit from wider usage 🙄

Shropshire - used to be ''twothree' for a vague number under 5.

Alltheyearround · 10/06/2024 14:35

Sahara123 · 10/06/2024 09:09

I’m Devon born and bred but haven’t heard smoothing the cat before! It does sound very much like something mine would enjoy, I may well start 🤣

I have smoothed my cat this morning and I can report that she liked it.

Falderalagain · 10/06/2024 14:39

Used to work in Suffolk - the locals used "on the drag" to mean late for something. My Hampshire relatives were more likely to say "all behind like a cow's tail" to mean much the same thing

Alltheyearround · 10/06/2024 14:39

WhamBamThankU · 10/06/2024 08:03

Laking out = playing out
Gubbins = rubbish Ie don't talk a load of gubbins

Politicians always talk a right load o' gubbins.

thesugarbumfairy · 10/06/2024 14:44

@Bearsinmotion its not specific to chemistry. Its just a maths representation of any generalised number i.e. n= number. I love that your dad tried to incorporate it into everyday use though 😁

5475878237NC · 10/06/2024 14:46

EBearhug · 10/06/2024 12:06

I've a book on Dorset dialect claiming bimble for us.

Never heard of bimbling before this thread.

Also some things I thought everyone knew and clearly don't!

PolkadotsAndMoonbeams · 10/06/2024 14:49

I thought mither was universal, but it isn't. It's a very useful word though.

Do people everywhere get ruckly chests?

We use both kali and sherbet around here. They taste the same but kali is crystals like caster sugar and sherbet is powdery like icing sugar.

sprigatito · 10/06/2024 14:52

I grew up in Stoke. We said nesh and mardarse. Also:

Duck as a term of endearment
Summat instead of something
Ta-rah for goodbye
Cheesybug for woodlouse

PandaG · 10/06/2024 14:53

On the huh, or on the wonk - wonky, not straight.

Tarkan · 10/06/2024 15:52

I'm NW and I can't believe nesh isn't used all over the country. What word do you use to describe someone who feels the cold easily?

We'd call that a cauld tattie/cold tattie up here. (NE Scotland but I'd assume this was used all over Scotland).

Avoidingsleep · 10/06/2024 15:55

Mither! Genuinely thought it was an actual word rather than slang.

Cattenberg · 10/06/2024 16:00

Some other West Country sayings I’m very familiar with:

Toad - naughty child (or pet)
Gurt pudden - silly person
Back along - some time ago
Cheers Drive - thank you (bus) driver
Lush - beautiful or delicious
Chinny reckon - I don’t believe it
Little maid - little girl (my Devon Grandma used this one all the time)

haddockfortea · 10/06/2024 16:02

MerelyPlaying · 10/06/2024 08:01

When I moved to Leicester in the 1980s I looked out of the window and saw ‘Sue’s Cob Shop’ opposite. I had no idea what it sold! Cob is used for a bread roll in those parts.

I love the idea of ‘smoothing’ the cat.

Cob is a stocky horse round here.

Cattenberg · 10/06/2024 16:05

5475878237NC · 10/06/2024 14:46

Never heard of bimbling before this thread.

Also some things I thought everyone knew and clearly don't!

The first (and certainly most enthusiastic) user of “bimble” I ever met was from Shropshire.

tuvamoodyson · 10/06/2024 16:09

pootlingalongagain · 10/06/2024 09:36

Lancs words I introduced my DH to:
Tup - headbutt gently
Scryke - cry (definitely used in Corrie!)
Ginnel - alleyway.

He also didn't know what "close" meant the first time I said it. As in "the weather is close today" basically humid. I don't think that's a regional thing, though.

We say ‘close’ for muggy weather here in Glasgow…’it’s that close the day!’

ChessieFL · 10/06/2024 16:11

I’m from the South West with lots of relatives in South Wales and I’ve never heard anyone say smoothing the cat!

I do use the word bimble though (and do a lot of bimbling myself!)

HouseFullOfChaos · 10/06/2024 16:16

Avoidingsleep · 10/06/2024 15:55

Mither! Genuinely thought it was an actual word rather than slang.

What is it slang for? I thought it was a real word

EBearhug · 10/06/2024 16:32

HouseFullOfChaos · 10/06/2024 16:16

What is it slang for? I thought it was a real word

I'd say it was dialect rather than slang.

Mum was okay with us using dialect, but not slang. I didn't know the difference other than both appeared to be words not to use in schoolwork.