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As the title says, 40 years old soon and totally lost. I really don’t know what to do.
Nowhere near where I want to be career wise. Im working on it, but will be mid 40s by the time I’m settled in a job I want to do and I’m worried I will be considered past it by then by peers etc. I’m scared of the future/working until my 70s/don’t fully understand pension situation.
My kids are needing me less and less and I’m finding that change so hard. One will be a teen soon and it feels like such hard work. I’m lost with how to parent a teen especially with phones/social media which we are now relenting on but it’s a battle to balance.
Parents need me more than ever, both quite serious illness/disabilities and I’m so fearful they won’t be here much longer.
Since last year, I have been missing periods or having bleeds in between. I’m currently on a 1.5 month with no period and feel absolutely rotten.
Large parts of the time I’m tearful or angry. I have lost who I am and I don’t know what to do about it. I went to my GP who had no solution except the coil but have heard awful things about it.
Is this what 40 is meant to be like? I’m really struggling to hold things together.
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I’m 40 this year and I feel lost. Could use some help please..
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CheeseSalads · 28/03/2024 19:10
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