So me and my fiance are having a small wedding this autumn.
he fell out with his brother but has recently made up. The fallout was over a comment his sibling made about me, but we now think it was their wite who was steering it all.
Im happy my fiance is back speaking to his brother. I know his brother and wife dislike me they have from when they met me and I’m not sure why
no matter how hard I tried with them and their kids they just made funny remarks and then last year I’m not sure what the purpose was but it highlighted to my fiance how I’m not deluded and they actually dislike me!
we’ve sent invites out and he’s said he wants to invite his brother now , which I understand.
I did say could we just invite his brother, I mean I’m not comfortable around him but it’s his brother and I get it. But my fiance is scared of awkwardness so doesn’t want to just invite his brother but understands why I wouldn’t want his brothers wife there as she makes me uncomfortable
is there any way around this or compromise? Do I have to have people who dislike me at my wedding lol??? I have to invite his brother I get this but I thought meeting in the middle would be the brother invited alone (so then it’s only 1 person who dislikes me there haha)