Is the relationship phasing out?

[DessyClark06]

Me and my boyfriend have been together since we was in school as you know things can happen when your young and nieve and in love.

I became pregnant at 15 our son is now 2 for the last 6 months my boyfriend has been quiet distant and it feels like he's not the same person anymore. We still at home with My mum and she helps out to watch him while I get a little bit of sleep.

The main issue is that we haven't been romantically involved for about 5 months and I'm starting to get a bit frustrated and feel like he's not interested in me any more.

Last week after I dropped my sister off at school my mum asked if she could take the baby round my nans as she's going Spain for a few weeks so wanted to see him before she goes I agreed and my boyfriend had a day off from work.

He was playing football on his PlayStation and i thought I would surprise him and walked in the bedroom unannounced and nude thinking he would take advantage of the situation and it has the complete opposite effect...

He told me to move out the way when I suggest we could enjoy the empty house he said no thanks and I need a shave! This led to a massive row and he went round his mum's from what he told her he basically made out all I want is sex and I don't stop nagging him.

I honestly feel like the relationship is over things and he's not interested anymore have changed so much since we had the baby and was romantically involved pretty much every day at the start of it.

Bless you - you are so young to be dealing with a little one AND relationship problems - is your relationship with your mom.gpod and is she supportive? It may be worth talking to her about this issue if you can.

Tho him not wanting sex on this one particular occasion isn't necessarily bad, 5 months is a long time to go without! (Also, can I just clarify, did he say he needed a shave himself or tell you to shave? If he told you to that is a massive red flag - how dare he?)

What was your sex life like before this 5 month spell?. Have there been other problems before? And could he be worried about another pregnancy - is your contraception reliable?

Do you think you could sit him down and talk about it calmly? You don't have to settle for a sexless relationship in life - some.issues are fixable but sometimes people do just grow apart....

Good luck!

My mum wasn't obviously happy at first when she found out I was pregnant as expected but she is very supportive of me and the baby. The only part she wasn't happy with was becoming a grandmother in her late 30s! 😂😂😂

Regards to conversations about sex a bit of hit and miss with her I thinks she might have a rough idea what the arguments is about because she says you've got that face again I can tell when I've had an argument otherwise I'd be happy.

Before the 5 months it was practically every over day his mates would pop in on theirs days off from college who we all went to school with.

Yes the contraception is very reliable.

I've tried sitting and having a conversation with him but he just sulks and goes upstairs when I tried bringing the subject with him upstairs he says you've heard of porn right? In a VERY sarcastic manner and the shaving comment was aimed towards me!...

I understand we became parents very young but I thought of would've of matured along the way